Why they pop out when....
By shattered
@shattered (1728)
Philippines
December 9, 2010 8:46pm CST
Don't get me wrong I'm not looking. But I've always wondered about the fact that beautiful ladies both physically and character wise are everywhere when I'm in a relationship and I can see none of them when I was single! Where in the world have they been hiding? It happened so often in the past that I just let it go. But I was with an old friend recently and this became the topic of our discussion.
For female myLotters, thats physically good looking guys with great character.
has this ever happened to you?
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5 responses
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
Did I say I was looking or that anyone is better? This happened a looooong time ago
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
Yup, that's true for me. I do wonder why the hell did these looking guys, and gentlemanly at that, were nowhere to be found when I was ready then to fall in love. Yaiiks! I should have nosed around longer, and perhaps McGyver would have noticed me! He was so busy with Physics and crimebusting...
Sigh! The good old days....
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
And now he is busy crossing world through the stargate!
but yeah it really is interesting where they are hiding when we want them right?
@minotaur87 (769)
• Singapore
12 Dec 10
There's always no ends to comparison when you keep looking out of the window when you are already in a relationship. In a relationship, many of our innate characters not visible to most people will start to reveal, that's when we found our partners not the most ideal one we have thought of. However, the same can be said of the others whom you met. On the surface, they genuinely have the good looks and great character. But on exploring further in a relationship, it may not be the case. Therefore, it's better to concentrate on what you have and not always look outside of the window.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
Your reply reminds me of the movie High Fidelity. True, there are many characteristics and chemistry issues that are unseen when you look at interesting and beautiful people outside of a relationship. I don't mean that anyone out there is necessarily better than your current partner, It's just interesting that when you are looking for someone no one is available and when you are not looking, so many choices appear.
but I do agree with you that not everything is visible outside of a relationship
but I do agree with you that not everything is visible outside of a relationship
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 10
absolutely right.
every human being would want the best for himself.
and expect to get what she wants.
become a perfect person is very difficult, but trust that everyone just looked at us from the outward behavior without knowing the contents of his heart.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
Yeah that usually is the case, we usually sea what we want to see and more often than not we never know the character of people until we are force to view them objectively. Perfection cannot be achieved in this world, though we are all perfect in our own way... confusing aye?
