Cheating Your Man Or Your Woman Only Means That You Don't Really Care

Philippines
December 10, 2010 12:41am CST
If your have cheated on the man or the woman you promised to love, does it mean that you don't really care or you don't really love him or her? I have always believed in love but i don't believe people saying that they love you only to find out that they are entertaining or flirting with somebody else than you. Thats foolishness! How can you say you love somebody but you cant even be faithful to him or her? Love, faith and respect must enhance one another to make relationships work.If you love somebody, you have to respect and be faithful to him or her no matter what. If you have cheated of him/her, then your love wasn't strong enough to fight the temptations.
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• United States
10 Dec 10
It's so much deeper than that. It doesn't mean someone doesn't love you. In some cases of course the people are just dip______ts and have no morals or respect for anyone and only care for themselves, but I know you can get in situations where there is a super attractive seductive person hitting on you, and you totally don't intend anything to happen, but it does. Then you could be sick about doing something like that when you love the one you're with so dearly. S_x is s_x. Love is love. You love someone and the s_x just makes the love so much stronger, but if a person messes up doesn't mean they don't love you. And sometimes when a person does this it's because they are insecure in the relationship they're in and need attention that the partner is forgetting to give.
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
that makes sense, but still its not a valid excuse, for me...i don't know with you or some other people...If love is strong, you should not fall into temptations...if you are insecure and you need care and attention from your partner, talk to him/her...communication builds people's lives
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 10
Hi, By saying that " I love you "...it is just a word in mouth. But you need to show an action that you really love and care that person. Last time when I was dating, we love to say " i love you" almost everyday and of course, I am so happy when I heard this word come out from my boyfriend's mouth. But so far, he never cheated on me before and at last we got married. To me...for a relationship to maintain forever, a word of " i love you" is not enough. Both parties have to respect and trust each other. Without a mutual trust...there is no point for a relationship to carry on.
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
That is correct, but it is also true that no matter how you much trust the person and you know that he will not even attempt to do the same, there will always be some doubts and it can never be avoided, especially for long distance relationships because you don't really know what the other person is doing.
@khanzee (123)
• Pakistan
10 Dec 10
Love is a bird, when some one touches it's house, it never seems to come back. We have to build trust, if some want to make relation ship safe and clean. Trustworthy people always could make relationship strong. When we love some thing, we care about it's every thing related with security and safety, this is the starting of love, if we could not show this step, means we dont' want to love, but we want beautifully women who could give us satisfaction..
@jornz87 (139)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
you got the point. for me,cheating to your loved one means that you are a kind of person that don't be contented with just one. because for me if you don't love that certain person they find a way to tell him or her that you have no love at all.not in a way that you have to cheat just to find another love.because you can always find another love when you can get out from her or him "free".
@krieyszel (330)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
Actually, my point of you in that matter is kinda opposite to you..but you are right that if you really love someone who will going to cheat him/her. But, we can't say also that if we able to cheated someone we really loved whether they intended it or not. Because, base on my experienced even though , we do love much that person,we still capable of hurting them. I, i have been cheated the person i deeply loved because I enjoyed having boyfriends and flirting to other man.But, I didn't notice if he was hurting or not he just stared at me and quiet and I don't it. When, he gone I realize how much I loved him and I was so stupid to be naughty in front of him. And when we get back together, I think all he wanna do is to revenged on me. But, made mistake again and again and just because of him.Until, One day he give up on me.I was regret so much for being so idiot and naughty.The funny thing was, when we were together he has also an affair to other and tell it to me. And me too, but we always choose us.I don't know if he do love me or not or just keeping it inside because he does not trust on me.I've loved him but I've hurt him.