about me

@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
December 10, 2010 1:28am CST
Of all the people who knew me. There are some people who do not like me. I always investigate, why people do not like me. In fact, I often, hear conversations of people who were talking about me. From their conversation, I conclude what kind of person I am, according to people around me. I was a careless, lazy, stupid, and never seriously in the work. Apparently I'm a very bad for the people around me. Do you know what others think about you?
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21 responses
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 11
If they are talking about is true, correct yourself. But, if they are saying is wrong, you do not need to care. You just proved that you are not a person, like they were saying. Many people also do not like me, they say that I am selfish. But I do not care. I just want, to be myself.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 11
I do not feel like it, but I also do not deny, what they say. because that judge me, not me, but someone else.
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@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 11
Do your best, you can do. Do not force yourself, if not within your capabilities.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 10
I never want to know what others think of me. Why should I care what others think about me as I am who I am and as long as I keep myself within my boundary, they can talk until they have nothing else to talk about me. Sometimes I am afraid of being too good in case others think I am weird. Even if it is the trend of the day, we should never compromise our common sense and moral values in order to be with the "in" crowd.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 10
Good to know that but don't under rate yourself.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 10
I actually do not care, with which people talk about me. But to know people's opinion about me, at least I can improve my attitude.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
stupid?? i dont think so... you are smart when you visit mylot and respond each discussion... lazy?? you are dilligent here..where is the point lazy ?? i think you must have a good friends and ignore many speaking of every people...
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
That is the opinion of those, to me. My bet is stupid, because I was always sloppy, and some say to me. That I do not use the brain, while doing something. People regard me lazy, because I always take a long time, in the work. And sometimes I miss one of my job, and I considered not doing anything.
@emine08 (1551)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 11
wow... do you agree with the other people judgement of you? me.... i donot know for sure, maybe i am an angry women, lazy etc. but i donot know with other people judgment.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 11
I do not know whether to agree or not. But that assessment of people against me. Perhaps, indeed I was as they say. Although my heart did not. But, I am aware, which is their right to judge me. Who knows about me, just my own. And others see from the outside only.
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 10
Hi Indah!. Gees Indah why do you value yourself thats low. First of all you are not stupid, I know from a response you made here its show how smart you are. Don't let others let you down with they narrow mind. You have reason for all your action thats they maybe not understand. Just remember no on had a right to judge you because judgement is 100 percent God right. Honestly I never what other people opinion because I don't life with their money and they don't know me inside. They can many negative think about but I know who I am, and no man can put me down as long I had faith in Him.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 10
I judge myself bad, because everyone said the same about me. Actually I do not care, but sometimes often crossed my mind. But with this, I got the urge to improve myself.
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
Greetings :) First of all, I don't eavesdrop on people. Second, I don't really care what people think of me. I am who I am, they should deal with it (peers). My personality by nature is very complex. I could be super talkative and social and in a second quiet and antisocial. I could be a totally innocent guy and later a very naughty individual. I am not schizophrenic. I am just who I am and I don't care what people think of me because, what matters is who I really am and only my closest friends know that and they know how to deal with me in ups and in my downs. Have a nice day :)
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 10
I listened, wondering people's opinions about me. Actually I do not care, with those words. I just want, to improve my character.
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
I agree, you are there to please them. For as long as you knew in your heart who you are and your intentions, it doesn't really matter what they say.
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Dec 10
You don't seem very upset about this finding. I certainly would be. I heard my daughter tell my granddaughter that she had to wait for me because I am out of shape and slow. That is the only thing I have heard. I am sure that my daughter gets put out with having to wait for me but she does. I know I am loved. Do you?
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 10
well, don't believe to what they say to you. every body have a positive side and negative side. we are only human. no body is perfect. the one who talking about you, i believe she/he have a negative side too. just focus on your positive and bring it on
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
10 Dec 10
I do know what other people thing about me! Where I work I don't have to hear it to know how people fell about me! At least the ones who don't like me! I try not to let it get to me but at times it does. I just try to remember why I don't like certain people and it helps! There are so many people out in this world who think they are perfect and have nothing better to do then gossip about other people! It's a shame but I think we also talk bad about people we don't like when they aren't around! It is human nature, sorry to say! We should know bertter but we just don't care!
@cicisnana (772)
• United States
11 Dec 10
Most people like me, I'm a happy go lucky person and don't let much get me down, and I suppose that is why.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
hi indahfth, there are just people who are never happy if they dont make a subject of someone. and here u sometimes eavesdrop that you are the subject. dear indah.. try ignore them. for you to have self confidence, think that you try to do all within your power to be a good person. you are better than they are because you never hurt anybody by gossiping and saying bad things about people. dont go down to their level. have a very nice day. ann
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
No not really but at some point I think I knew.. I can't read their minds & so far I haven't heard anyone talking about me, because if there is I surely make their mouths bleed..haha joking.. =) They haven't seen how sweet & caring you are. How you responds to my topics are great, I can sense that your really a sweet woman. Maybe the people around you are making your life hard & miserable that's why you too are bad at them. Cheer up, your not bad & i think your just being protective of yourself that's you did such things to them.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 10
Many people who treats me bad. In fact, almost no one thinks I'm good.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 10
I care about really. want to be like the other answers do not matter, but hard ... always thoughts. yes ... basically my character so people, want to be praised, who is not hurt, if considered ugly at others? which I do in order to feel proud, is to make myself a man to be proud of. continue to see other people (which is less than we of course) would be proud (wahaha. .. I am more powerful, ... blablabla ...: D)
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 11
This means you must always do good, make achievements, and not make mistakes. Because, you always want to be praised.
@yippih (101)
11 Dec 10
Hello, me again, i think you should not think in this way, none of us will be perfect, we definitely have some weakness and bad behaviours, if we being commented by other, that is the time for us to think seriously whether we had been troublesome to surrounding people or not, if so, we need to be thankful to those who willing to tell us the problem we have, because they give us the chance to improve ourself, so do not be afraid to be commented. What i had mentioned above only refer to those positive comments, for negative comments, don't take it seriously, this is the way the bad guys foolish us, they will be happy if you feel depressed. Happy always, happy mylotting here to forget all the unhappy experience!!!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Dec 10
What other people think about me is none of my business. Still, it does hurt when you overhear negative things about yourself, especially when you have no reason to believe they're true.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
10 Dec 10
Old age is good for somethings. I use to care what others thought, now I don't. I know I do my very best everyday and if someone doesn't like it that is there problem, not mine. I work hard, do my job, say only kind words, pray daily and like the song says "love like crazy."
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
10 Dec 10
Hi indahfth, i have no complete idea about the members what they are thinking about me, i am here to spend a good time and learn something. Since i am home maker, i do have much time after all left for their job and school. So i will be here for most of the time. I read some of the discussion/responses. But never tried what members are thinking about me. See each and every one will have a different ideas on each person, they may like or dislike or just nothing, its all depends on their thinking or how they receive our responses/comments/discussions. But my attitude is, i will respect all the people and if possible i try to help in a little way through my words. That's it. I never think that what others are thinking about me, because i am very cautious in my words and work too. I don't want to hurt anyone, which gives me more pain. Have a good day.
• United States
10 Dec 10
In all honesty I would hope people could see past any flaws and or weaknesses I may have. Most people really should know that I am a very giving and caring person. Unfortunately indahfth, there are people who have views about us which are not warranted, but I normally listen to what they have to say, I may not like it but I do think about how I can further improve the person I am.
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
Start from within, be vibrant and let those gossips slips away. Leave them and accept that they are like that, that their only business in life is gossiping, they will not earn from that, anyways.
@auyuelin (231)
• China
10 Dec 10
I am a sunny boy from China,it is confident which is the most obvious character of mine.but sometimes,i will hestitate because of some little things and thought too much.What's more,i love sports very much,i love basketball,tennis and swimming but not good at them.Others said i am a kind and outgoing boy,but in fact,i am really quiet and love to stay alone and just get along with myself.