How would you feel about going to your ex's wedding?

Hi. sender621. Even if I am happily married, I still would not want to go to their wedding. It would not feel right especially when they have always wanted to marry me from the get go. I would have to decline this wedding invitation, I am sorry. I just can't be a part of this ceremony.

Now I would be able to go in a red "F@ck him Dress" and I would bring a date! But when he first left it would have hurt Way too much! But now I see he came intro myife so I cold learn what I Really wanted and now I have my guy and I'm so happy! ps. A F@ck him dress is the dress every woman should own , It is the revealing dress you put on when he wants to stay in and you want to go out. You say " F@ck him ! I'm going out!"

Personally you see and hear about things like this happening more and more all of the time. It makes you wonder though sometimes what is the reason? I know when I got Married a little over 12 yrs. ago I cannot imagine having any of my Ex boyfriends there. It would definately have made that awkward, but I have a cousin who at one of her Marriages that did not last, had a lot of her Ex husbands and their Moms their. I thought this was quite strange indeed. I would rather leave those memories behind.

If we were still good friends and I got along with his fiancee, I might consider going. So long as we were friends and there wasn't any hard feelings. But as it stands we haven't really spoken since our break up. There have been very few occasions where we have spoken. We really aren't close at all. And that's why I wouldn't feel comfortable going.

Hi Sender I would go and be happy for him but worry about the woman. I don't give a hoot what my ex does it is his life and he will be single soon after the marriage any way. No one can put up with him........LOL He was a pain in my bottom and if anyone could deal with him after 5 marriages then good luck to the woman.

I am very willing to witness their exchanging vows as long as they sent me an invitation of course for me not to charged gatecrasher. To invite me for their wedding is somehow shows that they consider me a friend after all.

I will respect the feeling of a bride. I will not go to their wedding. To be fair enough.I know that, if i am going to the wedding the bride will think why i am their in their wedding. And i don't want to destroy her moment.I want her to be happy that they.

Hi, If I were in this position being invited to my ex's wedding party, then I would say , I will still go there since my ex has invited me. If I were not going there, it means I still hate her or there is something not right in my heart. Since he is my past and everything has over, I should not think too much about our past,but I should look forward for my future life. Since he can get another life partner to pursue his happiness,then I should be there to congratulate him and his partner, we still can be friend although he is my ex. I just need to have positive thinking and open-minded.Then my life will be happy.

I guess its ok to attend to your ex's wedding for as long you are both friends and you have learned to move on with your lives without each other.

I would be happy to join in if we ended as friends before but if were not, i think i will not go. It will be the worst day for me instead of wishing them happiness. I may bring someone just to hide my bitterness inside.

This is not easy to answer at all really. If we were to split up but remain friends then that is a positive, sure we may feel a little something at the time but it is too late as we would have moved on. There would be some form of feeling but that is to be expected, if it was your ex husband/wife then that is different, it would be hard to see all the family and friends of your then partner being at another wedding, too strange for me, even if we remained close friends. But if just a relationship and not marriage then although a little weird i would go if we did remain close friends, it is what friends do and afterall they are getting married and so must be happy that they have got the right person beside them, can't dwell on the past, must look to the future and be happy, a bit like the film my best friends wedding, too late for feelings, they are getting married to someone else so if you have feelings then hold them back, keep the friendship you have and go to the wedding showing that you are there and happy for them.

I think I would go and wish them well. I think it's entirely possible to stay friends with your ex. If it was too recent and I still want him, I might not go, but then I would be questioning why he was getting married so soon. I would definitely try to bring someone. I hate not having a date.

My ex knows that I could never attend his wedding and he wouldn't be able to ask me to either. We separated under conditions beyond our control and even though it has been a few years it is still difficult for us. We were "soul mates" and even though we could never be together again, the spot in our hearts for each other is still there. That is my issue, but you might want to ask yourself "Why would my ex even want to invite me to this wedding?" Then also, you might want to examine your "feelings" towards your ex. Some people that I have known have been able to do this and it be not a problem for them. Some went alone and others went with their partner. I guess this is something that you'd need to examine yourself and get a fuller "picture" of the situation from all angles. I hope this assists you in what you're looking for.

Actually it depends. If I've totally moved on and don't feel any hurt anymore and the reason of the breakup was not messy then I'll go. But I'd prefer to go with a friend,I might feel awkward in front of some familiar faces.

I would weigh the situation at hand and see how it goes. If it's my ex whom is not recent , I have no qualms of coming to the wedding. But if I'm dumped so that they can get married , I don't think it's such a good idea to go after all.

I will attend if I'm invited. It's all right if I'm alone because our relationship is in the past. I'm attending it as a friend, nothing more. Furthermore, if he were to invite me, he's bound to invite other friends whom i know as well and so I'm won't be alone for sure. I'm sure if he wants to invite me, he has got to get his wife's approval too. Since his wife is ok with it, why would I bother right? If I have a bf, I will bring him along too.

Nice, that's what I feel, will be the moment to show my concern to my ex's, however the ex's is part of the memories of my life, I do not want any hatred, I just want to have friendship to all ex's. Indeed to do so is very difficult, especially if I still love my ex's, but on the other hand I do not want no problem in me, I do not want to have negative thoughts, I just want to wash my brain until clean.

i would not feel good about that that's always a bad idea when you go to a ex's wedding. so no i would not be able to go and yes if i were to go i would absolutely bring some one but my personal advice if your really going trough this is don't go but of course i cant speak for you :P