.do you still have contacts with your childhood friends ?
By hyacinth4u
@hyacinth4u (21)
Philippines
December 10, 2010 10:04pm CST
Just wanna know if all of you here still has contacts with their childhood friends, coz me, in my case, I don't know where they are now. There's only one thing that I know about them, is that they're already professionals and others got married. One day, I saw one of them driving in a car in a very nice suit, I have no choice but to hide because I am very shy knowing that they're expecting too much from me knowing that I am the best in our class..
What should i do? search them on facebook and add them? i really am shy..
20 responses
@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
i still have contact with them but only in facebook. theres already a gap between us i guess. but i have a few highschool friends that im still close with just like my bestfriend. we still keep in touch see each other once in a while.
@cicisnana (772)
• United States
14 Dec 10
I have searched facebook and myspace both and found quite a few of my old school friends. All of us lead very different lives. But we still share a common bond of favorite memories from school. There are some friends who have done very well, some not as well. That doesn't bother me at all. I love exchanging memories with my friends. I'm not worried about how well they are doing or not doing (though I do wish them well) just that we were and are still friends. Even if we are just internet friends now.
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
Not that much because some of my childhood friends are already married and they move in to another place. But there are some who still remains here in the Philippines. And we still see each other though its not that too often, but we still know what happens to each of us.
@wizteen (502)
• India
12 Dec 10
Yes, thanks to the social networking, i am still in contact with my friends! feels great to talk to them and remember those days!
and hya, don't be shy. you shouldnt care about what they are expecting! be proud of what you are and don't hide! talk to them! im sure you will feel great remembering old times with them!
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
12 Dec 10
yeah , i am having real time contacts with everyone , also caught some friends in FB and Orkut
@angeline1 (144)
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12 Dec 10
yes.I still contact with my childbood friends.But I don't where they are.Just in case,I need them.I usually search them in facebook.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 10
Hi,
I am so glad that with facebook, I am able to find back
some old mates which we have lost in touch for very long time.
Some of my old friends are married and have
few kids and we managed to catch up with each other again..That is fun.
We have lot things to chat around and we just wanna know each
other better and long story to go on.
I won't feel shy seeing again my old mates. And I am still
trying to find more old mates using facebook.Hope I will have chance
to meet them personally one day.
@hippiemomdiaries (815)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
Thanks to facebook, I found my childhood friends again. It's such a great feeling seeing and interacting with them. No matter where they are, we are in touch. Thanks to the magic of digital technology. I think there is no reason for you to feel shy. I'm sure your friends would love to see and hear from you. You should take this opportunity positively. Who knows, they might be able to help you in terms of employment, or business, or whatever...Also, there is no reason for you to feel insecure. Success should be in your own terms, and not in comparison to others. Be inspired and be happy for whoever you are right now, and likewise, feel the same for your childhood friends.
@nayeem_siddiqui (44)
• India
11 Dec 10
Yes I have contacts with some of my childhood friends. We will feel very happy when we meet our childhood friends, when we talking with them we feel like we were in our school back in the old time,
So my suggestion is contact them don't be shy.. They will feel very happy when U talk to them
All the Best
@buddhis (58)
• China
11 Dec 10
i am happy and excited at first when i meet my childhood frinds.but to my disappointment,they just can not recognize me when i call their names out suddenly.and that will makes us very embarrassed. sometimes i think, maybe the changes on me is too much.meanwhile, we didn't keep in touch with each other all the time.and all of that make us strangers.
to me,i think it is ok to meet a friend in your situation.
@pokumon (644)
• United States
11 Dec 10
I would add them on facebook. I have added a few grade school friends or classmates of mine. A lot of them have families now, which is weird. I'm not as successful as I would like to be because of medical problems I've had. I was also one of the best students and was even voted most likely to succeed in high school. I'm not really embarrassed because it's not my fault. I still will graduate from one of the best schools in the country; it will just take me a little longer than normal.
@rs1lencer (38)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 10
yeah i still have a contact with my childhood friends, with social network i found them. in my case im still a college student so i dont have problem like you. but in different ways sometime i need to hide to if i saw them because now i have more acne on my face. lol
@omchesunche (1755)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 10
yes, absoletely ..I am happy with current technology which allowed us to get easier getting touch with our old friends..I have seen many of them I just found during chatting or source through social networking channel such as facebook or friendster.. I guess everyone should love to do it..good memory still remain..
have a nice day and happy mylotting..
@esh1991 (52)
• India
12 Dec 10
hey i can understand what your talking about coz i switched schools when i was 15 and i was really reserved and shy to go back and speak to my previous school friends but now after my second year of college i making efforts to get in touch with them and its really nice to go and talk to them. I think you should do the same. All the best with that
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
11 Dec 10
Hello hyacinth. I don't have contacts with my childhood friends or playmates because all of us are scattered everywhere. In spite of this case, I still miss them a lot and still remember their appearance in the hope that we can meet each other some day with good luck. The major difficulty for me to see them is that I am not working in the city where I was born, but in a faraway place from my hometown and I don't have much chance to see any of them. I will try some day when I go back to my hometown once I know about any one of them. Have a good day, friend.
@redwarrior82 (480)
• Singapore
11 Dec 10
No.. I've lost contacts with them already. I really miss them and would like to catch up on things with them. However, I'm experiencing the same thing as you... I am too shy to add them on facebook and they might not remember the friendship that we once had. People change. So i'm not really sure if I should add them :X
@abj163 (1037)
• India
11 Dec 10
i got moved away from my childhood friends after my school life....since then i was having very rare contacts with them....not with them actually with some of them....it happened when i was 13 and i moved away....now i am 19 and i have contacts with all my childhood friends via social networks like facebook...some of them are not still in contact but they will join facebook soon and i will be in contact of them too....so i suggest you to add your childhood friends on facebook....and leave the shyness......you will feel happy after talking with them after so long time...
all the best
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
11 Dec 10
I still keep in contact with my childhood friends on facebook, once in a while we hang out but yeah I've searched for some and you should add them. They're all so nice, well mine were :)
@littleyuu (60)
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11 Dec 10
If childhood friends means the friend you made before middle school, actually I don't have much contacts with them. This year, when I hang on one of my friend's home page of facebook, I saw my best childhood. I was so excited and added her to my facebook immediately at that time. When we first met on the internet, we talked a lot, about her family, her lovely son, etc. But our lives have changed a lot since we haven't seen each other for almost twenty years. Later on, we didn't talk as much as we first met. She is not as close as she was to me. But I think our friendship will not fade, even if we are not close to each other now, my best wishes always go to her. Wish her a good Christmas holiday and Happy New Year!