How do you get along with your husband?

Hi, Quarrel can always happened in the relationship,it is pretty normal. Sometimes, I do quarrel with my husband over small matters,so we just need time to cool down ourselves,the most is overnight,after that we will be fine again. Sometimes if it is my husband's fault,then I won't start to talk to him first,but he will make the first approach to talk to me and vice versa. Actually after quarrelling, we even get closer and it helps to strengthen our relationship even better. Of course, don't have too long cold war with your husband, it may not good for relationship. If your husband insisted not to talk with your first,then you can make the first step to talk to him and see what is his respond to you. Anyway, both of you are husband and wife...why is the point of being so ego? After cooling down yourself...just forget what has happened last night and stary again your new life.

As it is a family, there may be some arguments or mis matching every where, and it is inevitable. Most of the family, it is surely happening. Even in my home, it happens some times. But whatever may be issue, we will finish within 1 or 2 days and will not last after that. Also, it it should not go more than that. The regular practice of such things will degrade our own integrity and dignity, in short we will spoil our love and affection. Slowly, it the strength of arguments and quarrel will go in high level and it will create or lead to unwanted major problems. For silly thing and minor mistakes should be ignored and should finish with a deep sorry. The best way out is to just talk the issue in detail and come to an end. Yes, some time we wont like his/her performance or the argument towards with certain matter. We may not like it or we cannot agree with their points. So, tell in open and if you find, suggest some alternatives and get an immediate resolution for it. Because, if we have children or others at home, it will affect them also badly. However, whatever happens, try to solve it smoothly and retain the love live better than earlier. All the best, Thank-s

Quarrels are common happenings in a relationship and what I hate about quarreling with my husband is the cold war that follow for many days after a heated argument. The mood will only subside when one take the initiative to break the silence. I am always at loggerheads with my husband as he is always drinking and looking at his drunkard face will automatically wake the sleeping tiger in me. I sure start to say something that will irritate him and he will retaliate with swear words that is so irritating. I have not really come to terms with his habitual drinking but sure each time when he comes home in a drunkard state I'll shoot him with my uncensored words. I've not built an immunity shield to prevent myself from attacking him despite of years of living in this state of annoyance.

i am not married yet, but a fight in a relationship is just the an added spice to make it more stronger. there where certain fights that also lead to break ups or closure of the relationship. it just the matter of how you will handle yourself when you are into a fight or quarrel. if he is hot with the fight, then better for you to calm down yourself. let him explain and try to listen carefully. let his feeling burst out, dont go along with his temper or else things will gone worst. be calm. and its hard for any relationship of having a misunderstanding. so before having a fight or quarrel think it first. :)

As for me, there is only one rule...Do not confront him directly after your quarrel...Many women tend to do this without knowing that it will make things worse...Men are different than women, as women need to be consoled immediately, but men are not...They just NEED time and space before they are up and running again...Confronting him directly will prevent this from happening...Just give him time and when you are ready, confront him wisely...Hope that helps, as I am a man too!

Always try to be cool. Quarrel is a normal factor between husband and wife. So, One person do something which you unlike at that moment just be cool. If its not work then ask me will give you more advice.

finally i know why she wants to leave me alone, as a man, i overdid too much, i never think about her feeling, that was the best ironic revenge for myself

talking, explaining my self and trying to understand him as men are usually more uptight than us standing up when i'm wrong and not backing down being comprehensive, wishing for comprehension i think it's a give and receive game

It is quite a common occurrence with almost all couples. Some even take it to weeks and months long. Best way is to sit and agree that what ever fight come, it should be put to an end before bed time and next morning each should smile and greet with a good morning. You will sure thank me soon. :)

the relationship was not a stranger anymore, because every partner must be having something like that. maybe it is because the attitude of one person among you who can not accept the decision. and finally a quarrel between you.

If you really love your guy,you'd better meet him halfway now and then even if you are right,you cannot insist to the end every time!Either of the couple must give in each other if he/she cherish the love and the family,or I'm sure there must be a rift between the couple sooner or later,and maybe divorcement is coming near.Believe it or not,just wait and see.Good luck!