I have feelings about my student, what should I do
By cerkeevans
@cerkeevans (134)
China
December 11, 2010 1:58am CST
Lately, i was home teaching a boy who just 13 years old. and I don't know why I would have feeling about him. he's too young, and he do not match my requirment about my mr.right. how could i ,,,unforgivable.....but he's really cute, what should i do ? quit this part-time job???but if i quit, maybe i will lose my chance to see him again forever. I don't know what to do
8 responses
@sunset_haze (97)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
From a teacher's view what you are feeling right now is ain't right. But that doesn't mean that's abnormal. You are just human to feel such. When you know it's wrong and you know what are the things to do to make it right then do the move before it's too late. You quit now. Do not think about losing the chance of seeing him again because that's the main point why you have to go. You have to forget that feeling and I know you can do it because I do believe that is just a fleeting emotion.
@sunset_haze (97)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
what I mean when I said it's too late, is when your simple feeling of admiration would turned out to "love" and it's you who will be hurt in the end for you know the kid could not reciprocate the feeling you have for him.
@cerkeevans (134)
• China
14 Dec 10
I am 20 now,, ,I decided to leave at least 5 years maybe the feeling would fade away
@forcemaster245 (220)
• Singapore
12 Dec 10
If you feel awkward when you're with him, or you feel like you might give in to your temptation and do something you regret, then perhaps you could get another of his family member to be with you two when he is studying. That might help to control the situation a bit.
@cerkeevans (134)
• China
14 Dec 10
I choose 2 leave after this semester,,, hope he 's gonna be fine ,, more than fine ....
@jordq7 (576)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
hi there cerkeevans!!O my God, are you serious??My oh my you know what eventhough I haven't experience anything like this yet, I can say that you should first assess yourself of what are your real feeling for that person. You should be sure of yourself before taking some actions. Who knows maybe what your feeling for that person is only what we call infatuation....just think a thousnad of times..GOODLUCK!!!
@cerkeevans (134)
• China
14 Dec 10
I wish ,, but the reality is cruel,, may be that's the time I should leave before it goes too far
@chowee (517)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
Now i believe AGE DOESN'T MATTER!!
Its ok to have crush at that boy. Maybe he will serve as your inspiration in your job ins such a way that you will do your best for him But do not go beyond the limit because that will destruct everything..hahahaha
I fell like ewwwww. to your story..but its just ok!!
@cerkeevans (134)
• China
14 Dec 10
I know it's sick but I don't wanna leave ?? maybe Because I think i can wait
@wje4site (170)
• India
11 Dec 10
Well, My idea is nothing goes wrong until he is good in studies. So What you have to do is keep him good in studies and Keep steps to do what you think. You don't need to quit your job. But again I remind you; Keep him good in studies, therefore no problem will arise..(All those thing is my personal experience and I am a student!!)
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
11 Dec 10
ahaha its normal to have a crush but I think you should not take it seriously and of course dont flirt or show your feelings for him.. as far as I know it will eventually go...
happens to me to Im teaching this boys which is 17yrs old..lol and hes really cute..but..but..hes younger than my younger brother evrytime the crush feeling will attacK I always think of my brother..
and I was like iiwww...to myself..lol
its normal..just dont go beyond the line..goodluck
@cerkeevans (134)
• China
14 Dec 10
I don't know,,,last saturday I thought he was trying to flurt with me,but ,maybe I was over reacting