how to gain back your love ,trust and respect for yourself? when you are ruined

I think all of us face major challenges in life where we are seriously hurt. It could be we lose someone very special like a good friend, someone we love like a boyfriend or girlfriend, a husband or wife and our life is given a big blow. However after a period of grieving we have to pick ourselves up and face life again. We may need some help and encouragement to restart again. We can go to God in prayer. We can read positive things like the Bible. We can rely on the support of a good friend or we can reach out to the world like you have done here. Life does not end with a lost relationship. There will be other relationships. We just have to get ourselves going again. There is always hope and there are other good things that will come our way if we look at life the right way. Tomorrow will be a different and better day!

Fix a time with that boy and talk about the things.. One thing about boys, if u apologize for your mistakes, boys do get melt and he will accept you in the same way.. Just say, that u want to be with him and you are totally desperate without him, he will look into this.. u were lovers rite? so he would have every corners for u and he will be longing for your arrival, just a sentence ...You have to make the first move..Go call him and be together again !!

You need to take each day one at a time. You don't lose love , trust or respect for yourself overnight. It casn't be gained back that quickly either. It will take time, courage and the strength to press on.

HI dear, It is quite a simple thing. Try to understand ourselves. That is what we need to do to come out of all such grievances. At many times, we get involved in many things due to our own circumstances and the surroundings only. If we have some clay mixed with water, we can make any shape with it. May be God and the devil. And name it. You say it is God. Demolish it and make devil with the same clay. So, here is the fact. Things got over and you only know how all end up with. You lost it. It is a fact. Turn around with opened eyes and you can see as many good people still around. Love is not just deserve by only one. If one lost, there are millions around you. Ok, it was an experience what you got from him. But what you didn't get are still far better than of what you lost. It is my practical experience. Believe me, now what you are doing is hitting on your own head and making pain yourself. Relax, thank and come forward, the world is wide open. Here we have a sarcastic saying, but it is really true. Don't run after a bus or a girl, if one goes, there are many to come, just wait for some time. So understand the fact and strive for a STILL BETTER one. Who ever is, show them how good you can live, and what better you can get. You should show them and be proud in front of them prove that you can still live in better conditions instead of spoiling yourself on silly things. Hope you understood what I mean. Regards, Thank-s

No boy is worth all that pain. You got to pick yourself up and move on with your life for you. It is easier to do than you think. You just got to say to yourself, "It was his loss!" Somebody else will come along and pick up where he left off. Don't waste your energy being "broken" over this boy. It is all up to you on how well you get over it. It is in your mind, if you want to let it eat away at you or if you want to just get on over it and move on.

give yourself to GOD and HE will show you the right way and everything will follow.