I wanna change myself to be better

Just like you, i think i need to change, but sometimes I think that I'm not the one that needs to change.

Hello friend, I personally don't believe that you need to change yourself a hell lot to be friends with someone. I am also not much of a talker but still, I've made good enough friends. Actually its your nature that decides the kind of friends you get and we always find like minded people. However, if you don't speak up at all, it won't help you make any friends first up. My advice would be to open up a little bit but don't try to change yourself completely.

Change is the most unchangeable truth of life. We need to adapt ourselves to the changing environment and society. Here in Mylot forum,there is no dearth of opportunities to learn,earn and expand the circle of your friendship.The more you express yourself to others,the better you feel the warmth of closeness of many good friends. It will naturally draw you to a large pool of ideas,information and knowledge that will make you more expressive and open to others around.

What do you mean you're not "good enough at getting along with my friends"? They must be your friends for a reason. Maybe you should make it your resolution to speak up more and try to enjoy the time you have with your friends more. Life is short..Take advantage of it!

Ya I think I am also very much close to you about the behavior you just said.I am also is not well in getting along with my friends.And also I will talk to them only whenever necessary.So they have started thinking me as an introvert.But actually am not.I don't like simply asking questions whose answers a re known to us already.I have witnessed such situations many times.Even though they are well aware of the conditions my friends will ask some silly questions .I don't know why they are so.