What is your stand on PDA (Public Display of Affection)?
By BambiDee
@BambiDee (114)
December 11, 2010 9:10pm CST
It's cool to announce you romantic feeling towards another but as for me, I think it's really inappropriate to show the public your sweet moments with your loved ones. Lip-locking in a place where there are lots of people who can see them? I think it's Over-Acting (OA) already. They should have at least a little privacy for their own. What do you say?
1 person likes this
6 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Dec 10
It certainly depends on the level of PDA, we are speaking of as if I haven't seen my boyfriend all day and meet up with him on the street, per say I have no problem expressing my love in public by giving him a quick kiss and hug and walking hand in hand.
But if you are speaking of out right steamy hot PDA, I suppose that is a another story.
@glamgirldoll (313)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
I think it also depends to the place and time of PDA. I'm a filipina and we do that all the time because my lover is so sweet. Actually another points that we should consider is the way their love is shown. Kissing is ok whether it is in the lips or in the cheek but when it is french kissing, I don't think I can still defend that thing.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Dec 10
Hi glamgirldoll and welcome to you on myLot.
Yes I agree with you as well as this is what I mean by hot steamy. LOL...
@krieyszel (330)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
hahahhaha yeah you are that's being nasty to public.It's only okay when you are in private place and just both of you, and you can freely do things you want.But, when in public just control it okay kissing,hugging, and holding hands as long a little and not so nasty to see.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
13 Dec 10
I see nothing wrong with public displays of affection as long as they are not offensive to other people. showing sweet and tender time with each other should not be just done privately. if you love someone, you should not be afraid or embarrassed to show it to the world.
@marapplestiffy (2182)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
It depends in the culture actually, in foreign countries torrid kissing in public is no biggie...of course being a Filipina I think the way our culture(your also a Filipino right? You mentioned "OA", but correct me if I'm wrong...) has molded me to think, but I don't give much thought about this matter for it's none of our business what those lovers do, well, except if the other one is your lover or your family member then you have a say in what their doing...
@krieyszel (330)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
I am agree,maybe it okay when you just holding hands ,smiling with each other, teasing and hugging but not to the point that they will kiss in a public.But, the fact is that, many lovers now a days are public display of affection.We can't stop or blame them for it's not our business.But just a reminder that even it's your own business I hope to learn more appropriate manner especially when you are in public.
But, to be honest I have done that things but just a stolen kiss,because my boyfriend is kinda naughty who just wants to kiss me all the time.