What do you prefer to save; relationship or faith?
@SweetLavender777 (16)
Philippines
December 12, 2010 2:51am CST
It's been an issue specially in the family about these things.
For Instance, one member of a family decided to follow what he or she believes in life and through this, his life will be better but his or her family were against with it and he/she love them but this person was eager to pursue what he wants. Will this person dare to follow his own and just don't mind his or her family?
3 responses
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
12 Dec 10
In the context of maintaining relationship in a family,one should not ignore his or her purpose,goal,priorities and plans of individual life. If the family stands as a obstacle in fulfilling the individual goal and desires,it is wise to follow one's own course,without making any shift.In extreme situation,one may independently move ahead with strong determination in a separate setting. If I find the environment does not support my plans and desires, I do always prefer to shift to a new environment to achieve my individual goal.
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
Greetings
First of all, I am confused what is the actual question.
Second, if it is the one about the person daring to follow his own, it all depends on him. It has happened multiple times in the US and other countries where children are given the right to decide for themselves. There are times when people see things other people don't and the family is not always right. On the other hand, if this person understands the point of the family, there is a likelihood he wouldn't follow his own.
Third, if the question is the one about what would I prefer to save relationship or faith?, I guess it all depends on the situation. If the relationship, I see is not going to last, I would discontinue it. If someone trusts you, that person should accept whatever decision you make as long as you don't violate your pact.
