Do you face this ever,Lack of confidencei n interview???

India
December 12, 2010 8:03am CST
Hello friends, I noticed that i can't give my 100% effort in any interview and quite nervous before couple of hours ago.I can't explain in satisfactory way even if i know the answer.But again,in group discussion with friends,i'm the best.Don't know why it happen to me.My friends get recruited for job,not me and i'm quite depressed.Help me out.
6 responses
@krieyszel (330)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
Me too, I lose a lack of confidence during in my interview even If I have an answer. I am almost speechless.And I almost forgot my answer and getting so much nervous and getting of kinda paranoid.Maybe the thing we are lacking is to trust ourselves that we can able to do it, make it good and able to answer during interview.We should be prepare and pray before taking interview and during interview do not think of anything and hesitation that you can't able to do it.Just focus in the interviewer, and be confident in your answer and be sure to make eye to eye contact on her/him.
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
that is the very one important during your interview because when you did not d that the interviewer may think that you are not paying attention too much and interested in you job applying.
• India
12 Dec 10
hummm,you are right about eye to eye contact.Even i answered all questions he didnt select me,may be due to my confused behaivour,eye to eye contact or whatever.thanks for your suggestion.
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
Don't get yourself worked up during interviews. Just picture the interviewer naked, it helps. :) and just keep yourself composed and know what you're going to say and say it loud enough that you seem to be confident about what you're saying.
• India
12 Dec 10
your advice like a LOUD.let me try hope it works...
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
that is happening to me too!! i am nervous and so tens. i had practice to be cool down and easy, but still i am panic. maybe that is why they don't hire you. you can't handle the panic in your self.
@nicregi (1934)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 10
For me, I always believe that if we have confidence, we will make it. The way to get confidence is tough. What I do is set my mind that I am able to do it. Just be yourself and put no pressure on yourself. The more pressure you have, the more and higher change you will break resulting and failure to get the job. I know it might sound easy to say instead of doing but do try out. Never getting a job doesn't mean that you will fail! Have faith!
• India
12 Dec 10
yeah, I think you are right.i need some more interviews anyways thanks.
@Wefight (328)
12 Dec 10
Yeh this happens to me aswell i also lack confidence in tests aswell and it is really bad as sometimes it will make me fail the test like i have done once thanks to all the pressure and lack of confidence.I think it was one of the big tests aswell like a CGSE or something like that anyway.
• India
12 Dec 10
thank you for your idea... hope it works with me too
12 Dec 10
hi dew_lucky2007, Just be tough and be brave. Concentrate on what you will do and set to your mind that you have to do it and achieved that thing. Have trust to yourself. You know what honestly, sometimes I'm lack of confidence during interview, I easily get nervous but you know what will I do that time, I pray to god for the confidence and courage, before everything I put God first.
• India
12 Dec 10
I get you krishelleya.I think pray god,deep breathing or any thing else is just psychological task.Let me check out what's that in my case.anyway thanks...