Have you ever had a friend whom you fell in love? What did you do?

I say go for it if you think he truly loves you. He could just be a player and not worth your time though meaning he really wants to have two girls at the same time, saying he loves both of you. But if you love him, you owe it to yourself to at least make those feelings heard once. I don't know what to say when a guy tells me he loves me when we were just friends. I had that happen with one guy who was a senior when I was a freshman in college. He came back to school to visit one night and told me that he loved me. I didn't know what to say and we just continued our conversation like nothing had happened. I had made out with his girlfriend and him once and he's a pretty good kisser. I think I would have dated him if he hadn't gotten into that relationship. I don't know if he really meant it or why he would say it to me all of a sudden after so many years.

Good evening dear newly mylloter friend , first of all i care to wish you a verry great and happy plus warm welcome here on mylot , i also want to wish you a verry great stay here on mylot and trully hope you'll find a large number of friends , like i did when i firstly joined this great website , making friends its the most important , because if you ever need some advice or have a question , there are lots of genuine members here on mylot , that are alway and all the time ready to give a helping advice or a straight to the point answer. Now as i goes for your discussion question , i cann say that it is a verry dificult one , because myself i used to be in kind of the same position you are in , i used to have a girl as a best friend , and she was considerate me the same , she used to talk to me about her boyfriend and it pained me verry much for not been able to express myself the feelings that i had for her , but i never told her , because i was really scarred not to loose her friendship and loosing her friendship would of ment that i would not be able to see her everyday , not been able to talk to her ;, listen to her , and i used to held her in my arms everytime when we saw eachother , it is a painfull and somewhat joyffull position to be in . My advice concerning the matter it is to think verry much about whatever you want to go clean and say how you feel about him and you need to gamble sometimes to win something , and not be like me , scarred i mean , because now i am regretting even now for not coming clean with her and tell her how i feel about her. I wish you a verry great evening . Florin , Over and Out

I think you should wait until you meet the right person. the ages you have listed are so young for the rest of your life love. The desire and love that you are feeling for this person will certainly change over the years. I was married when I was 17 and divorced by the time I was 19. My daughter, when she graduated from school had this boyfriend and she wanted to get married, I wouldn't let her, so when she turned 18 they got married. and 2 years later divorced. Right now you are going to go through so many changes in the next 3 years. I didn't look to see where you are from, but you are probably just finishing school, living at home with your parents or someone to support you. You have your whole life just starting, so step back and wait. I read your question "how do I know if he loves me?" If he really loved you he would not be playing you girls for one thing and if he really loved you, YOU WOULD KNOW! It's in the actions...remember the actions speak louder then the words. That will be true all your life. MY son married a girl two months after she graduated high school, that was 12 years ago and they have 2 children BUT they have had a very hard time, as she adjusted to being independant and going from having a home to makeing a home. There is a big difference. My son was 21 when they got married. He had completed 3 years at ITT. For them they are really in love, but back to that YOU WILL KNOW! Best of luck to you.

Hi there! :) i can't really give a good advice, but i can give an experience one. sometimes, it's better that the friendships remain friendships, so that later on, if you're going to break up, you won't lose a friend too, just a lover. trust me, losing a friend is more painful than a boyfriend, when it comes to long term suffering. tell him if he really wants to risk your friendship, to talk with the other girl and tell her he already has a girlfriend, but never accept someone that wants to be with 2 girls at once.. if he's unsure, at least tell him to think about it, don't let him sometimes say that you're just a friend, and other times that he loves you, that's just wrong and painful for you so don't accept that! talk your way through this and reach an agreement. its best in these situations to reach to a conclusion, the faster the better.

Hmm..looks like you can't trust this guy now..I think the best way is waiting game..you just keep away and wait to see his reaction..If he seriously love you, he will come again..

Sometimes feelings this things really make people feel very confused,sometimes clearly each other a favorable two people but cannot cross the step,but always be in ambiguous zone,sometimes not love each other two walks in fate become lovers,sometimes fate is so helpless,so when you can choose,you must follow your own inner choice,if love,never letting,if not love,don't let the other side misunderstanding!

I am sorry that i am only a student.I like my girl classmates because they are beautiful,but it is nor like.So i can nor answer you what i have done!