How can I improve my character?

Australia
December 12, 2010 4:59pm CST
Poverty brings about excruciating hardship. While many can maintain their happiness by focusing on appreciating their relationships with their neighbours and their family, as I've witnessed firsthand in my mother's village, poverty inevitably hinders many from experiencing a higher degree of satisfaction, happiness and self-worth. It's devastating to know that people just like myself are forced to endure such standards of living. Rather than merely feel sympathy for these people, I seek to dedicate my life towards helping these people using my skills and money alongside developing a career. I fear that I lack a certain degree of selflessness, patience, strength and sincerity that would be required to compassionately give a large portion of my time and resources to people in need. I feel that I need to have excellent character to be as giving as I seek to be. Currently, I've been volunteering to get me started on giving back. I want to be a better person. I never want to face a situation in where I regret my decision to help certain people who have chosen to exercise their freedom by selling drugs or living a life of extravagance. Everybody has a right to lead the life they seek - I want to avoid controlling the path these people take. Strengthening my faith in God could certainly help me. Meditating could also work as well as continuing my volunteering efforts. What other ways could change my perspective by assisting in reducing feelings of selfishness, the desire to enforce a certain way of living along with impatience? I truly want to be sincere in giving back and have a long way to go.
1 response
@jepoi17 (118)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
. . character is what really within us no matter what happens this are what we already have from the very start! improving your character means giving a chance for yourself to grow and discover new things! . . .learning is the best thing in improving your character leaving the unproductive one and enhancing to most have the possibility! . . .try to seek to yourself and determine what areas or field you want to improve, and after you have decided to change leave the past behind make it a point of your progress and sustain until you attain what you really have to achieved!!