Honesty
By cssiduyz
@cssiduyz (1053)
Indonesia
December 12, 2010 7:21pm CST
An honesty means when he was faced with a question.
Questions about the content of the heart, about his life.
But is there an honesty means when met with reality?
Yes, I think honesty is always meant in any circumstances. Though it hurt, but honesty is calming.
Be honest to yourself, what is disturbing your heart may start from dishonesty.
Would not that be tantamount to self-deception?
Are you happy when deceiving yourself?
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5 responses
@nicregi (1934)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 10
I always train myself to be honest. I know at times I just cant be honest but I try my best in everything I do. I believe in karma. If we cheat others, we will be cheated back in return. I am never happy when I cheat someone...of course, unless he or she is my enemy or had cheated me before.
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@safirpurim (252)
• United States
13 Dec 10
yes honesty is indeed important. to lie to someone is a big meaning to show you dont really care for them. i never trust someone who is not honest..and this includes many females. because i have had many female friends who were angry with me for whatever reasons, but wouldnt tell me why, and i feel like they robbed me of correcting the situation. only later i came to find that in mostly all the cases they liked me, and got jealous that other females would like me too. i cant help that. honesty has taught me to be kind to all, regardless of if they are male or female, but i have control and restraint, and i dont flirt, nor will i mislead someone. being honest from the heart and loving honesty means one wont be fake to anyone else. but if a person is not honest about how they feel....they rob whomever they are false to....because they wont allow them to know the real situation, and maybe correct it.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
13 Dec 10
Honesty should come with every aspect of life. We should not choose to be honest because we think we will gaain something from it. Being honest about everything we do should be how we life life. it will brings the peace we need.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
13 Dec 10
Honesty is not always good. Sometimes, we have to lie in order to make certain things work. Though lies might be exposed someday, but it's the current situation that matters the most. I choose to deceive myself if it's going to do the overall situation good. Especially when it comes to love, self deceiving is most common because we don't want to let go.
@Beth2010 (12)
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13 Dec 10
Honesty is the best policy as what all knows.
Yes it is a tantamount to oneself (self-deception) and this kind of person can not move on specially when he is always hiding the truth whatever it is, may it be love, family, friends, and at work.
Honestly im not happy deceiving myself its because i feel guilt and that guilt inside me will always torture my mind. And ofcource, its not a good experience though.
