Understanding what being sisters mean.

Philippines
December 14, 2010 3:45am CST
I always quarrel with my younger sister, and I find it very difficult because we still live in one place and we dont talk for about a week now because i didnt let her use my laptop. I really do not know what to do, but still i do not want to say sorry to her because she get addicted to facebook and she feels that she has more advantage because she is younger than me. How I wish I could kill her.
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• Philippines
14 Dec 10
i think it's really normal for sisters to always quarrel or fight over the things they have.. it may be annoying to you and even to the other members of the family.. but be patient.. your sister might not be mature enough to understand things.. so why not sit down and talk with her.. or you two might want to go out on your private date and have a heart to heart talk.. tell your sister her limitations.. what you don';t like, and what you should do.. maybe then she'll realize that you're not really keeping your things away from her.. you just want her to know the value of discipline and respect.. go big sister!!
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
Hi. Thank you so much for that encouragement. My sister isnt like that. Shes the meanest of all creatures that you can meet. I mean, she thinks shes the boss, that she knows everything. How I wish that doing what you say is really that easy, but come to think of it well it is really hard.
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
well, how old is your sister anyway? do you have a big age gap?
• Pamplona, Spain
15 Dec 10
Hiya glamgirl, I am the youngest Sister both of my Sisters have passed over. But the last but one Sister came to live with us when she was just Fifteen. I hardly knew her even though she lived at my Grans House all the time. So we had to share a Bedroom and it was not long before she starting showing her true nature. I had never seen her like this before and I am a good Five Years younger than she. I took it with a lot of patience but one Day we did have a Fight but not a big one and I did not want to twit on her as then at that age you still had to obey your Parents. But I did let her know with the Scrap we had that I could defend myself. I did not feel good at all about it but I had to defend my ground and who I was. From that time on we got to get on better and she shared things with me that she had outgrown and I would never have had the chance to wear like high heeled Shoes, Tights and so on. We never really hit it off altogether but we both made an effort to get to know each other better of which I am glad now as she got married not long after and that meant I hardly ever saw her again. So try and give and take a little with her okay she is in the age I was in. Well there was no Facebook then. But hey Facebook is not everything either. I only wish we could have had more time together my Sister and me but it was not to be.
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• Garden Grove, California
15 Dec 10
hi glamgirldoll why not encourage her to wo rk towards getting a laptpp of her own or suggest to your parents what a great idea a laptop for your your younger sister would be so you will not get into a knock down drag out fuss with her. no you really do not wish to kill her, do you as who would you have to fight with t hen lol lol lol.
• India
14 Dec 10
According to me that;s completely normal. I have two real sister's and I am the youngest. I have seen them Quarrel for year's and see them fight, Cry but at the end of the day they become together and I know they Love each other. When my sister's get angry they surely beat each other like anything. Its normal for them to fight. But I remember the day when My eldest sister got married my other sister kept on crying and she was the one who never stopped crying. I never knew that she loved her so much. When My eldest sister was single they never shared moments of Love all they did was fight. But during the separation time, the Real love was Unleashed.