I gradually realized
By auyuelin
@auyuelin (231)
China
December 14, 2010 10:21am CST
1.I gradually realized that cares about someone else too much often hurt yourself
2.I gradually realized that the one who care about you will be less and less with time goes.
3.I gradually realized that a person should treat himself well because very few people really care about you,they might not be your side when you require their help.
4.I gradually realized that a person may be can not get a good return when you care about someone,and who you tend to be ignore may be the one who really care about you
5.I gradually realized that many things can be met without resort,and a lot of things only once.
6.I gradually realized that love is not necessarily true.there may be interest,there may be psychological comparisons.
7.I gradually realized that never argue with others,it has no sense no matter who is right.
8.I gradually realized that when you experience things unhappy,never expect others' sympathy,most of people will take cold retaliate and look down upon you.
9.I gradually realized that there are many things that do not belong to you,you may get hurt if you insist on it.
10.I gradually realized that many things may not have sense,but everything you do will be your memory.
11.I gradually realized that differences in personality can be so great.
12.I gradually realized that many people had become who you do not recognized,but please retain memories.
13.I gradually realized that we should retain everyone now with you,give up persons who you can not detain,because we don't want to lose a group of friends to detain a person.
14.I gradually realized that you must care about your own self-esteen,but your self-esteem is nothing to others.
15.I gradually realized that don't show your bad temper to people who around you when you are unhappy,they are not your parents and have no responsibility to tolerate it.
16.I gradually realized that even if others emotionally to think love is not matter,you must firmly believe that the love between people.
17.I gradually realized that the reality make us so helpless.
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@YuxuanZou1992 (11)
• China
15 Dec 10
Please chrish them,they are your own memory and they are irreplaceable
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
15 Dec 10
Hiya any,
It´s a good thing to recognize events that go on in our lives. I have read through them what you have written there.
No one of us is perfect so although we might try and carry out all these kind of things, being more kind, being more loving, being less egoistical, are hard to do in everyday life.
I suppose if I was isolated from the World more it might be much easier but I am not. I have to live stressful situations every Day like everybody else.
Even a Saint would have a hard Job keeping in line with all those (grin). Not trying to pull you down I think it´s a really great list it´s just that I am trying to carry out at least three or four of those myself and I don´t get it right everyday. But then who does. It is very good to keep in mind though. Very handy to have a list and remind yourself of what you can do and not.
Lots of things to live up to in there even so great List any.xxx
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Jan 11
Hiya any,
Are you feeling much better now? I hope so. May you have a great Year ahead in all senses of the word in 2011.
See you around any take care now.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
20 Dec 10
I agree with all of the above. Nobody knows us except for ourself. Nobody understands us except for a few of our close friends, because they are able to see our faults which we refuse to acknowledge. Life is a strange happening yet we are eager to see it, and experiment with it. Many of us knows that we only live once, but yet only minority of us are daring enough not to go with the flow. Reality makes us helpless, but also makes us stronger.
@YuxuanZou1992 (11)
• China
15 Dec 10
They are all your own experiences and memory,and make your life colorful and wonderful.Without them,life just like a cup of water,without any taste,please chrish them.
