How do you show your care' concern if its a long distance relationship?

Philippines
December 14, 2010 10:43am CST
How do you express your concern or your love to someone who is very far from you? Someone who is miles away from you? Long distance relationships can't be avoided since sometimes, there is really a need to be away, for instance, your partner needs to be away because he is assigned to other workplace. So, even if he/she is away, how do you show that you love him/her? =D
5 responses
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
15 Dec 10
My guy and I send texts messages throughout the day to each other. sometimes its something as small as
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
That's so sweet of you, to not let a day pass without showing him how much he means to you. You must love each other so much. I wish my suitor from that "far-away place" will do the same. He is supposed to be sweeter, right? but he's not. XD
@krieyszel (330)
• Philippines
2 Jan 11
It is simple to show care and love when you are in Long distance relationship.It's just the same in near relationship.If you really love the person truly and sincerely,you knew what to do.It came from the bottom of your heart you don't need asks any opinion to others in what should you do. Long distance relationship is very difficult and it's very challenging to make it through.Some broke up,but some's succeed.It's depend of the attitude,sacrifices,persuasive and love of that and for that particular person.If you have the will and courage to fight for it,then you can achieve your aim. Long distance relationship is a biggest trial and test on up to where you can prove and survive your love to someone.There are also times,that if it's not meant for you,no matter how hard you'll try but still it won't work.If it's really meant for you,then how far apart or difficult to make it through and happened.One day you'll cross path each other and meet. There are times,they just passed and being part of our life.Maybe to gives us,some lesson.Even how we deeply loved them and get get to much.It's part of love just be glad his been part of your life.And to learned from that person in a mistakes made or etc.Don't blame anyone for the hurtness and painful you've been going through and suffering to carrying the burden.For there is someone at the right time and place will come along in your way.To ease all the pain and replace your bitterness into happiness and smiles.It's okay to express your pain inside,cry as much as you can.Shout it loud to cure and get rid of hatred.Give time to yourself to grief for just a month if possible.Then, show up the world you,and began the journey in your life.Life must go on, let go of him together with his memories and move on. There's a rainbow after a rain.Then, the next one will come,the better one who will love you most and you will most. Remember!Love is not love without pain.Because pain and trials will makes us stronger, better and brave person.For, love is a mystery.You can't predict what will gonna be happen for tomorrow. Just ride and go with the flow.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
19 Dec 10
Text messages.... emails... instant messages... phone calls... send each other care packages... video conferencing... :)
@yippih (101)
15 Dec 10
Hello mabeldaclan, ya, quite true that the long distance relationship is common nowadays due to working, studying and blah blah blah... But do keep in mind that, the technology nowadays also advance and enable us to keep in contact most of the time. For me, i will keep contact with her through phone, messenger or facebook. Show your concern through these services and let him or her know that you are always beside of them no matter how far is the distance in between. I also go and visit them if got holidays, travel through airplane is common and easy nowadays with advanced technologies, happy mylotting.
• India
15 Dec 10
Hi Distance I think makes the heart grow fonder, so a little bit of distance is actually a good thing. If the workplace is in the same city but different location then that might actually be a good thing. If he/she has moved to another city then it makes things just a little more tricky.. but still you can still be involved in each other's lives by knowing what is going on with each other - regular calls, emails , chat online - will still keep you closely connected. Concern and love come through quite clearly in phone conversations, he will be able to hear it in your voice. And the internet has really made the world a much smaller place. So call him(using him for convenience) check what's happening with him, be involved in his life and of course plan and look forward to the times that you will get to meet up and be together again.