My little girl still sleeps almost all day....should I be worried?

United States
December 14, 2010 9:04pm CST
I'm a new dad of a 4 week old (tomorrow) baby girl. My little girl sleeps almost all day still, the only time she seems to be really alert is in the morning around 8 (right at the time I leave for work) and her mom says it lasts for only about an hour, some days a little longer - but other than that she just drinks a bottle every 3 1/2 hours and sleeps. And when I give her her bottle - it seems like she just dozes right off, and is already half asleep by the time she finishes it! Is this normal? I'm worried that she sleeps too much and should be awake and alert more of the time now that she's almost a month old! : ( The wife thinks she's fine - but I just can't help but think she shouldn't be sleeping this much at 4 weeks old! I'm a new dad and a guy at that - and haven't been around kids until now so I don't know what's normal and what isn't. And I want to just trust what my wife says - but I am just a paranoid new dad I guess I'm worried there might be something wrong. : ( Is my wife right? Should I be concerned?
10 responses
• India
15 Dec 10
No problem, One month baby must sleep at least 18 to 20 hours per day, so no need to worry about your child.
@ip5217 (1655)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
That's true, but if she sleeps for 4 straight hours my doctor advised me to wake her up. Otherwise, feeding her would be by demand already. With my little girl (5 weeks old) she demands more often nowadays. I think every 2 hours she cries for milk.
• United States
15 Dec 10
Hi, I am a mother of four and I used to work with infants before I had my own. Infants need a lot of sleep. They grow very fast in the beginning and good sleep is important for that growth. as they age the growth rate slows and the amount of sleep decreases..then my dear you will be wishing she still napped as much..lol. As long as she eats and potties it's all good. As for being a paranoid new daddy it's normal. I think there would be something wrong if you weren't. My own hubby was that way with our first and even a little with this last one (5 months) when she was born. See when we where still in the Hospital with the first (now 11) I was in the bathroom when she had her first BM, you know the one that is black in color. Well he thought for sure something was wrong and snatched her up naked baby glory and ran down the hall yelling for a nurse. When we where back two years later with number 2 we had a nurse who was there during the first baby and remembered him very clearly and pretty much picked on him the entire time we where there which was a long time as she was a preemie and in ICU for a few weeks after being born. SO don't worry, try to relax and remember that if it bothers you call the Dr. That is what they are there for. Or see if your insurance has a help nurse phone line. You can call that at anytime. Now from the wife's side try not to be over bearing and too untrusting. As a first time Mom she is probably a little nervous her self and feeling a little incompetent. Your insecurities could really bother her, especially if you insist on not trusting her instincts. New Moms can be touchy too...lol Good luck and congratulations.
@ip5217 (1655)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
This is very informative. I enjoyed reading your response, too. I have a 5 week old baby too. She sleeps most of the time. Being a first-time mom myself, I slowly learned how to deal with my baby. Normally if the diaper is dry and she is full, the sleep would be longer. Also, right after giving her a good bath, expect a good long sleep from her.
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
Yes, they sleep for long hours, so you need not to worry about this dude and also they need it for their brain development. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2458354.aspx
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
15 Dec 10
Your wife is absolutely right. Do not worry. it is very mormal. when they grow up little by little the hour of sleeping will be reduced. then starts the stress for the poor mother some times for the father also.
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
20 Dec 10
Don't worry about the situation about your litle girl,traciesdaddy.The little girl should sleeping a long time per day,it is normal to little children,if you can't believe,you can bring your little girl to the hospital and take a check
@20kg82 (11)
• Australia
20 Dec 10
Hi I am a mother of 2 and also worked in childcare before becoming a mum. It is perfectly normal for babies to sleep most of the day (my 2 certainly did although only cap naps). This is when they do most of their growing. As they get older they will sleep less and work themselves into more of a routine. Just try to enjoy your little one as they grow way too quickly
• India
15 Dec 10
hai nothing to worry. u should be happy with that. usually babies sleep for longtime after birth and it reduce slow by slow as baby grows. only u have to worry if your sleep did not sleep. congrats for your babies activity. don not worry about. its be alright. have a healthy and peaceful life to you and your baby. thanks
• Singapore
15 Dec 10
Not to worry, dude. Infants sleep for almost the whole day, it's normal. They need a lot of sleep in order to grow well. Perhaps you are too worried, that's why. Well, let nature take its own course.
@calpro (930)
• India
15 Dec 10
hi, Little babies(infants) sleep around 16-18 hours. It is quite normal, I understand your worry since I am a dad too. In my opinion this is normal and as slowly they grow up they stay awake for a longer time. But still if you have concern about it just see a pediatrician and explain your worry. Doctor will be able to give you confidence. So there is nothing much to worry about it. When you are worried better clear that worry don't carry it for longer time. Happy Parenting Calpro
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
its normal since babies need a lot f time to rest especially after a meal. just be sure to check if she's still braething.