how can you mend a broken heart faster?
By applejoy
@applejoy (145)
Philippines
December 14, 2010 10:57pm CST
We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?
7 responses
@stephmanimbao (268)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
mending a broken heart really depends on the broken hearted person.. the longer he keeps the pain, the deeper he gets hurt.. so just let go of the pain.. focus on greater things that will come your way.. and look forward to the next person that will fill up your heart again.. like the old saying goes, "broken hearts are like shattered glass.. but bear in mind that there would always be someone willing to pick up the pieces and endure the pain just to make you whole again.."
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@applejoy (145)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
oh..thanks..i really agree with what you said.. you have to let go of the pain by doing what? specifically? you have to open your mind and accept that the past will never be back and that you got a lot of things to deal with your present and future life.. i like this old saying that you said.. :) it made me smile.
@bernjane (143)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
I'd go on with friends and make fun but i don't go on dating just to forget hurts because in the end its you who will lose with the game you played. Just be yourself, don't force yourself much to forget that person instead just bring back all the memories and soon you will wake up you're happy and you're not loving that guy anymore.
@applejoy (145)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
accepting the reality..how? it's hard especially if there are things around you that keeps reminding you of your past. One big mistake of people is that they can't let go cause they can't even start avoiding or taking away those things that keeps on dragging them to remember their past.
@pratik87 (1927)
• India
15 Dec 10
it is not easy to mend a broken heart. one of the best way is to going back to things you were doing before you met your flame. Think about it. who did you hang out with for most of the time before you got into a relationship. i guess the answer is friends and family. just spend time with your family and friends and i am sure you will feel a lot better. catch up on whatever you have missed so far.
@applejoy (145)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
what if you got used to being with that person for the past years..it will be hard to remember what were you doing before you met this person..but true, friends and family..are one of the tools for healing..try to catch up with the things you wanted to do most that you weren't able to do when you were on your past relationship. Try to engage yourself in activities that will keep your mind preoccupied..
@nereidiane024 (292)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
when a door close, there always another door to be opened. every problem there would always be a solution. its hard to let go and mend your broken heart. but the one who will repair it, would also the one who experienced it. there where people who will support you all the way, give you advices and strength. but its still our own way of repairing what was broken will heal it. you had live your life, without him, you have just learned to live a different life because of him, if he hurts you then go back from where you had started. let your life be reborn and live without him. and if there would be new kind of love would be there, then dont close your door to another opportunity of be loved and being inlove. remember love begets love, if you lose some, youll gain more. life is a struggle with lots of learning. if we get dumped because of him, then stepped up and conquer what God has planned for you. :)
@applejoy (145)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
it's true that people around you will help you move on..but what's hard is yourself. Self-control is vital to be able to move on..there are some people who divert their minds but still they can't help but think of their past. I guess this lonely person must always be cheered up and try to open up his eyes that there is always more to life and there are a lot of things that will always be greater than what he had before.. there's always more to what you have now, you just have to work for it and have an open mind.. there's always time for everything. Change is the most constant thing in this world, so it's impossible for a person to constantly live with their past with a broken heart for the rest of their lives..because there will be news things which will come their way in the future..
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
I am not sure but mending a broken heart usually takes time especially if you really love that person that much. However, I know the only faster way to that road of healing and recovering is finding someone to help you forget that person who had hurt you. A broken heart can be consoled by another heart.
