Committing suicide for love? Isn't it crazy?

Hi there! I am from Malaysia too! Ok back to topic. It is quite shocking but I do understand that they actually thought that the love is everything. At times, the love could be very real until it actually affects us deeply. Regardless how deep the love is, it is tough to think straight and consider that life itself worth more than anything. However, my prayers goes out to him and may he rest in peace. Such action will not only affect the girl but also everyone including his family members. .

I don't what to say,I just want to ask what's the matter with today's young guys? why they r so brittle.....I think the guy should have been sane.

Love and hate are on a thread of emotion and if you think of it that way and then put the weight of the break-up into the center of that thread the two ends meet. This is what causes all sorts of "crimes of passion" and the like, when these two ends meet from a weight in the center. Some of us are mentally strong enough to handle the drastic change from love to hate, (which is usually only temporary), but others lash out. This one lashed out and the outcome was his demise. I feel sorry for the loved ones that he left behind but to call him "Crazy"? Nah just not mature enough to handle the situation. Four Months?!? That has me a little confused as he must have been a very passionate one. Have a great day!!

In my opinion, he had NO CLUE as to WHO HE was or how to make HIMSELF HAPPY. In order to love someone else YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!

Falling in love and getting hurt is really hard to bear. I've been there. I also thought of killing myself but I just don' have the guts of doing it. When a person falls in love really bad to a person and that person ends everything casually it really hurts so much... Hurts even more when people around you don't understand you and even put fuel to the fire you are feeling. I've been there... and I know how hard it is.. But if you get pass it, you will then realize how stupid you were to do something and be affected like that.... I have missed a lot of opportunities for me because of that moment in my life but it all gave me a lesson I will always treasure...

The decision of that guy was definitely nuts. At the age of 22, I could say he wasn't sensible enough to realize that if he only let time pass by his hurt ache, he had healed the wound by now. I do believe that Happiness and hurt ache are states of mind though it will be difficult to move on, just persevere. Its totally a stupid thing to kill your self when you lose a lover, it's like crying over spilled milk. If that person is not for you then you have to let go. You must know that if you are not meant for each other then someone better is coming tomorrow.

That is crazy. How could he have been so in love after just 4 months of being with her??? Sad for sure. I feel like it takes time to get to know someone. Now this 18yrs old may be feeling guilty over this for many years to come. He committed a very selfish act.

every body just want to solve their problems immediately. and never realized that instant solution might harm their self. it is too bad for that good looking guy. he should approach me first, maybe we can have a nice realtionship

This happens all the time in America. I would say it's a sign of poor parenting, and a lack of faith in G-d. When your parents do not teach you how to be an adult, and how to deal with the normal pains of life, and when you don't believe that the G-d of the universe knows and cares about you... well.. you tend to be desperate and when things don't turn out right, you have no reason to believe they ever will.

I wish he didn't do it because he's good-looking from what you've described. And to think that he's a man. I think that when he's heart is broken, there's nobody to listen and no one to confide with his problem. If there's a shoulder for him to lean on, then maybe he still alive. But it happened and what we can do is to pray for him and his family for their sorrow.

You know what, this is something that makes us better than other animals on earth. "Love" is the only thing that has brought us to this advanced age. Most of the people do not achieve success for themselves. In most of the cases there will be a beloved one behind every success. What that guy did, can not be justified, these are all stages of Love, few of these stages are called depression and no doubt he was depressed and did such thing. Hope he will rest in peace at least after leaving the body. Pity to the girl who lost someone like him. This is what confuses me, tell me asxenon, if you have to be "God" for even one day, will you let such thing happen in your world for that day?

this kind of person really have problem. if they found the courage to talk about those problems and look for help maybe this kind of things wouldn't happen. sadly sucidal tendencies became constant in our lives and they get to this for various reason: because they don't like the way they look, because their boyfriend/girlfirned left them, because they can't get someone to love them, because they think that no one understands them. and most of the times a person who thinks about sucide hides it. you said that this guy posted it on his facebook account. well didn't anyone see his message? are we so careless that when we see that we don't do anything about it?