She's Happier Now
By eurekafemme
@eurekafemme (5877)
Philippines
December 15, 2010 1:15pm CST
She was a beautiful girl both in and out and also got a brain she can be proud of. She got a boyfriend who was equally handsome. Eventhough, they were classmates, it was hard to tell that they were on.
The boy was so cold to her, not even showing a bit of a care and he seldom talked to her. When he waited for her to get her ride, he was often frowning and not saying a word to her. Not even a kiss on the checks when her ride finally came.
She loves him but she had doubt if he truly loves her.. . Then they broke up. Not a surprise.He found another girl. She tried t forget him and opened her heart to another guy.
She married him and now, her husband showered him with love and respect , everything that she deserves.I'm glad she ended up with her hubby now than with ex. She is happier now..:)
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5 responses
@luvnidandan (131)
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15 Dec 10
I am happy for your friend eureka :) Sometimes, the person we are currently with (doesn't matter how long) is not the one we are bound to end up with in the future. We do not know what tomorrow holds. At least, the person she is with now treats her with respect and love. That matters a lot. Wish them both a long lasting happiness!
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
Me, too, Luvnidandan, i'm wishing her the best of everything.:)
She did not expect that she'd ended up being in love with him. He was just her best male boyfriend and a shoulder she always leaning on every time her heart is breaking.:) He loved her from the very first day he met her.:)
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
Well, I can only feel happy for my friend. Not only that she is happy and content with his man but also they were blessed with two beautiful kids. Not to mention that her man is far more good looking than her ex (the latter seems to grow old fast).:)
Have a great day, dear Saphy.:)
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
15 Dec 10
Eureka-
I was married to an abuser for 9 1/2 years before I was finally able to get out. When I left my thoughts were that I didn't really want to be married, ever but I knew that we are meant to walk this path with another and I wrote down a list of attributes that I wanted in a spouse. I then tucked those inside the story of Ruth in the bible with a note -Just give me a husband like Boaz. Well, many years went by, I grew spiritually, and no Boaz.
Well, as time went by I continued to stay focused on my career and spiritual path. I met a wonderful friend who I spent time getting to know for six years. We would talk on the phone, email, and correspond via pm's on chat and speak about the goals for our spiritual teaching group, etc. He knew of my entire life, my teaching, and so forth and one day we decided to meet in person. He proposed the weekend we met and we've now been together in person for five years, going on six. It took time but my Boaz showed up as requested.
So, I think it does occur that sometimes you end up so much happier the second time around.
Namaste-Anora
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
@Anora: your great faith in Him had brought your Boaz finally in your life. God knows what our hearts desire and He knows when is the perfect time to grant its desires. As the Bible says , seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. Nothing is impossible to God and to those who believe Him. I am happy to hear such wonderful testimony about finding true love.:)You are blessed , indeed, my dear. Namaste:)
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
@Luv: only God knows who and when. But I know for each and everyone of us there is someone meant to love us and make us happy.:)
@luvnidandan (131)
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15 Dec 10
Aw, your story made my eyes well up, Anora. We do not really know when the right one would come. And we should not hurry, too. Wish you all the best in life and love. :)
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
as they say, sometimes, one has to experience a heartbreak and disappointment at one point so he/she will be able to appreciate more the best thing that will come his/her way after that failed relationship. It is great that your best friend didn't cling to that kind of man as his ex...or else she wont be smiling now.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
Hi, Bokal.:)
You are absolutely right. My friend will not see the goodness and greatness of her husband if she did not experience the many pains brought to her by her exes.
She knows from the start that she will never be happy with that ex so she let him go.. I'm just so glad she did.:)
@harshavardini1 (235)
• India
16 Dec 10
it is not that if a girl and boy must be equally good looking . but, all tat matters is tat how much understanding they have got and how much care, love and affection he shows for her.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
Physical appearances don't count much when it comes to love. It is that inside desire to love ,care and be with that person through thick and thin for all eternity that matter. And she found it all with him.:)
