Insect phobia
By ricextreme
@ricextreme (964)
Ecuador
December 15, 2010 4:29pm CST
Hello mylotters, I have a problem that really worries me. I have fear of insects, specially big butterflies and spiders. I know there are many people with the same problem, but I think mine is bigger, because I have fear of the smaller spider, I mean, even it is a small spider, I have some kind of fear. I know it can't hurt me, but I feel disgusted to touch spiders, and I can't live relaxed if there are spiders near to me.
Sometimes, there appear little spiders at home, but that's not a problem, I often kill them, and the problem is end.
The problem is, that as a project of my high school, we have to travel to a town where my high school has a farm, it is 3 hours away from where I live. That town is hot, and there are much insects, even the strangest ones I've seen. I haven't gone yet, but some friends who have recently gone took photos of the insects, and I was really scared of that. That insects were really big and ugly. And the worst, we have to sleep in a place that could have some of those insects.
So, do you have any comment or advice that could help me overcoming this problem? I know that people can overcome phobias, so I would want you to tell me how to do it.
Thanks for answering.
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3 responses
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
15 Dec 10
I do not have that fear myself but my wife does and I will tell you the same as I tell her, do not dwell on it, you know do not think about it.
If you go there expecting for all this horrible stuff then you will ruin your trip but if you do not think about them it will be fine. Do not dwell on the thought that you are going to see all these insects and just go, if you do see them then deal with that when it comes, hell you do not want to give yourself a heart attack before you get there. You might get there and not see a single spider and if you dwell on the possibility then you will miss the fun of the trip.
This aspect will in no way get rid of your phobia but it will let you enjoy your trip. Forget the insects and enjoy, IF you do see one deal with it and continue on as it is dealt with but do not let the fear of the POSSIBILITY stop you from having fun, now if you were going to a spider farm, that would be a different story but with this trip it is only POSSIBLE not DEFINITE
Have a great day!!