Which is the better thing to do?

Philippines
December 16, 2010 3:50am CST
Is believing without seeing it is better than believing it without seeing it?? I'm relating to the boy-girl relationship. Most of us experienced break up because of some rumors that spend. What would you do if that thing happen to you?
3 responses
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
20 Dec 10
hi,yes you are true to most extent as seeing is believing....but there may be chance for otherside also...Smoke will not come without fire... one can't make sound[claps] with single hand,sound will come when both hands clash.. so without anything,why the rumor will come.O.K.,in very cases few people create rumors that people who hate you...
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
Yes, I understand what you are saying. We should not believe everything that we see because sometimes its just an illusion that will trick us.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
16 Dec 12
(I'm assuming you mean something like 'is believing what you HEAR ABOUT someone better than believing it only when you see it?') Well, if you trust rumors more than you trust your boy/girl then it's better that you 'dial it down' to "just friends" until you trust them a little more.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Rumor indeed will affect a person's objective judgment, but many people choose to believe in rumor, rather than to investigate the truth behind the words. I myself have such problem also. I, sometimes rather believe in somebody's words, and not to pursue the real truth behind it myself. I felt I should not believe in those rumor easily.