I need a girlfriend

Greetings Let me be one of the people that will say : No, you don't, you just need a friend to talk to. It is really hard to help you when you sound so general. Since I don't have much basis, I guess it might be the way you approach girls. Girls wouldn't refuse you without hesitation if they liked you. Maybe the reason why you want to find a girlfriend is because, you feel left out in your group of friends. Somewhat a possibility of being labelled a homosexual in your circle of friends.

It's like you're in a rush to have a girlfriend because your friends have one. Don't be pressured by that thought. A lot of people doesn't have a partner but still, they are happy with their lives. You just to think positive about things. You'll meet the one for you soon. Enjoy your life without the restrictions of other people. Do other stuffs that makes you happy. Playing online games, and the like. XD

The best way to find love is to stop looking for it! Being happy living your best life pursuing your own interests is the way to go and before you know it the right girl will show up in your life. Sometimes trying too hard can work against us. The two girls you pursued clearly were not the right ones. Be patient and have faith.

don't worry dude, maybe the two gals r not ur cup of tea. frankly speaking, i'm a single too, but i'm sure there is one suits you and come into ur life someday. hope urs will appear soon and good luck.

hi, i think dont panic if you still have girlfriend, maybe that two girls is not really meant for you, dont be lonely and the right girl will come to you, dont be worried if your friends around you have a girlfriend, just wait and dont panic my friend.

Hi koAebryant! It is better to have a girlfriend who will accept you for what you are and for what you have. Don't mind those two girls,just say to yourself..it's not my loss,it's theirs! Don't ever think there might be something wrong with you because each one of us is unique in so many ways,if they don't like you then they did not see the beauty and good in you. Don't rush yourself! Love will surely come in your way at the right time and at the right girl. See you around!

I would ask you a few questions........... 1). How do you feel about girls? Are you comfortable talking with them or do you find it difficult? 2). How do you treat them when you do talk with them. If you are very lonely it can very much influence how you come across to them. In a word you may appear to be very "needy". Girls run from that. What attracts a girl to a guy is not always looks, but confidence. If you are able to be confident you will project the image of someone that is in control of himself and really doesn't seem to need her. Every girl likes a bit of a challenge. The two most important things you must develop is confidence and the ability to make them laugh. If you can do that you will have more girl friends than you know what to do with. I had the very same problem you do when I was young. Many years ago I happened on a web site that really helped me understand better what a guy needs to do to be better with women. As with everything it is only as good as you let it be but I think you will find it very interesting and it may point out exactly what is currently wrong and what you can do about it. Here it is: http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ Good luck to you. It can be done by anyone willing to change themselves.

koAebryant, If you really want to have girlfriend do not just look for it because everyone around you have it. Make sure that you search for someone to love and not just to treat a girl like a trophy whom you can show off to you friends and other people. Just be nice to everyone and have self confidence and you will just see that it wasn't hard to find a girlfriend. Just don't get in a hurry and the person who is meant for you will just come at the right time. Hope it helps.

Good day to you koAebryant, With reference to your discussion, perhaps dont feel upset with what is happening to you, maybe, your time to have a girlfriend is not yet to come. The reason why you feel lonely is because all of your friends has their girlfriends now and that they give their full attention to their partners instead. In either way, perhaps, you are on the wrong side of choosing the girl you want to be your girlfriend. Since, good looks do not come togerther with good traits. Generally, there are times, if the girl is so beautiful, the traits within is not that perfect or vice versa, if the trait is almost perfect, the looks is not that beautiful. However, there are still some exceptional situation, wherein, a lady with a beautiful looks also has a good traits. Maybe, it could be best to identify which do you prefer. Then, start to search for a girlfriend again. If the process did not work, try to re-focus your self in other activities that will occupy your time, taking some picture or rendering your time to photogaphy, or any other hobby, for, you will never know, this might lead you to find the right girl for you. Just redirect your thoughts to other things, sometimes, we only need a different directions, for us to reach and target our goals. Nevertheless, you will still win at the end - that, a girl is destined to be your girlfriend.

Hmm. Follow my tips this could help you out. 1. What's your hairstyle? Is it nice or fashionable? First thing you should workout is you hairstyle. Try some new hairstyles that you think women will love to see. 2.Smile. Look for a decent girl. Introduce yourself and say that she's gorgeous. Ask her to have a dinner or shopping or wherever you want if its ok with her. 2. Be a gentleman. Carry her bag or whatever shes carrying. Before you eat on a romantic restaurant, be sure to pull the chair under the table and let her sit first before you take your sit on your chair. Make a conversation. I mean ask her name, where she lived, in short, her informations. By that time you both should know each other more. 3.Give her simple presents that you think she would like. A perfume will be much appreciated. As well as gadgets. 4.When you think you love now love her, don't hesitate to tell her and ask her if she love you too. 5. When she said yes, ask her if she wants to be your girl. Goodluck..

chill, be happy dear they are not meant for you they are not fit for your love wait for a girl who loves you may be she is around you when you feel that some one is loving you hen go propose them i'm sure you'll get them.

maybe you need more patient to the girl you want - you need to put extra time and effort spending to the girl... make sure you are friendly, kind and good to see for girls.

Yo dude ...dont be sad ..! its not so hard to get a girl now a days....its not matter how you look like ....its all bout our talking.... you need to get a nice personality ..so there after you don wanna go after girls ...they will be tailing you ....take ma word !!! ps:neva eva trust a gal ! :-)

I don't think that U need it! You just want the feeling of having one! Try to be happy and contented alone, and not find one! Cause the right one will be arriving to you in surprise and it is much greater feeling if you find it that way! Try to make yourself busy in so many other things than bothering yourself finding a GF!

Okay, right now, you need to focus on school, focus on bettering yourself, and then you will get a girlfriend. You need to seriously find out who you are. I know that you want a girlfriend, but you're not ready for one. You have some growing up to do and you need to become mature. You need to focus on you before you can focus on anyone else. You need to develop a personality. Girls love a man with personality. They want a man who knows what he wants and who is willing to go the distance to get it. Work on who you are and who you want to be.

Wow, it sounds desperate, but it is understandable. Well, I don't know what were their mentality, and I hope that sooner or later, some girl might find you attractive and accept you. I also need a girlfriend too, because I end a relationship 6 months ago. It just totally not going to work out as I see it coming already.

Relax a bit and do not rush into seeking a girlfriend as you may perhaps end up with one not so great for you. Venture out a bit and be yourself, as pretending to be someone you are not will not result in good. So greet and allow small talk to lead to perhaps a coffee date with a nice young lady. Good Luck.

Well probably it is just not your time for serious one or have not met someone who will really likes and accept you for what you are. Most girl have their own preference over guys when it comes about relationship. So be patience and make more friends because who knows if you will find the person from there. Good luck and have a nice day

Hi Koaebyrant always nice to have someone in your life but dont rsuh things , when its meant to happen it will. Till then enjoy single life it has many advantages.. and plenty of freedom

There's no need to rush. It's very likely that the rush was what caused the refusals. You need time, and patience, to conquer a girl you like. And don'go out there trying every single female that crosses your path... Just wait, someday you'll see somebody you think is worth the effort. And then, you'll have to be patient, talk to the girl, be friendly, and sometimes you can give some indirect approaches. If she likes you, she'll let you know, and then you can go ahead directly.