jobless and pregnant

You move on. People are laid off from jobs everyday with all kinds of circumstances, even worse than yours. That doesn't make it any better for you, but you move on. Life will bring disappointments, set backs, and overwhelming challenges. Never let circumstances rule over you. As for the relative that fired you - ask them to truthfully tell you why. Be willing to accept their answer, then let it go.

man this is very deep but i feel you on the in side tip i would feel the same way you do....i got beef with my fam and i still have not for gave them if i was in your shoes i would juz for get about them and leave god out of it its not wearth the drama

I don't know the circumstances of what happened to you but if this was done by someone who knew you were pregnant and still threw you down then I would probably never forgive them for that. If you were teasing them or egging them on then that is a different story. When someone hurts you you have to have time to get over it. You also have to have closure. I think this is what you need now.

I am sorry to hear that honey, I also felt the same thing that happened to you. Don't feel bad coz every mistake that we made is the way to keep us strong. You go forward and face the future and I know you can do it. Just try to look for a good opportunity. There will be an open door for us women who had a bad experiences.

It really is a tough world, isn't it? Sometimes we are put through things that are unfair, hateful, and hurtful. Made even worse when it is a family member who has done this to you. (this has happened to me in the past, I know how it feels) The best thing for you to do is just pull yourself up and carry on doing the best you can for yourself and your baby. I know this is probably not what you want to hear but I have found it to be good advice. As long as you carry the spite and resentment for this person you are just poisining your life. You are letting that person continue to make your life miserable. I'm not saying you should just forget about it but you need to move beyond it. As far as going to a family gathering where this person will be and trying to act as if nothing has happened... you don't need to put yourself through that. You don't have to go, plain and simple. Don't let this person continue to have a negative power over you by letting this make you a spiteful, miserable person. The best thing to do is put it away and grow stronger from what you have experienced.