I've just spent a lovely day with my mum

@Wizzywig (7847)
December 16, 2010 6:41pm CST
Today, my mum is 80years young & I took her to visit my son in Manchester where we went to Starbucks, browsed the Christmas markets, had a very nice meal and rode the "Eye". She said it was "the best birthday I've ever had, even if I rolled all the others together". Having her with us, seeing the look on her face and knowing that she knows we love and care for her are priceless gifts to my son and myself. I am so privileged that, when I came into this world, I got the best deal on mums and that, despite the doctors predictions, she DID reach the age of 16!! Are you fortunate enough to still have a wonderful mum??
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@BarBaraPrz (47619)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
17 Dec 10
Mom and Me - Photo taken Sunday, Oct. 24, 1999, two days before her 80th birthday.
Well, I still have a wonderful mum, she's just not on this plane of existence... I set up a surprise party for her 80th, in my home. Most of the relatives came and I think it went well. I even arranged for birthday greetings from the mayor, provincial government leader and PM. (That impressed a few...)
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@BarBaraPrz (47619)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
17 Dec 10
I tried for the queen, too, but she only sends out greetings to those who turn 100.
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
Well, its impressed me too & thank you for sharing that special photo
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@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
19 Dec 10
Hi Wizzy. This is quite a coincidence reading this today as it is my mum's birthday today. Yep, 5 days before Christmas. She is only young as she had me when she was a teenager. She is turning 56 today! The last two years I have travelled back to where we grew up and spent Christmas with the family. I made sure both times that I arrived in time for my mums birthday, which was great. This year we are not visiting the family, so I will Skype video call her today and me and the kids can sing happy birthday to her. She is a great mum, very loving and caring, although my wife and her do not get along, which makes things a little tough at times!
@Wizzywig (7847)
19 Dec 10
Oh! You have just become my hero by referring to 56 as being "only young" Very best wishes to your mum
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
20 Dec 10
LOL 50 is the new 40 so life now begins at 50!
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
19 Dec 10
Yes, I am fortunate enough to still have my mother living. Although there are times she makes me feel like bonking her over the head...lol.. But she knows I love her.. It is awesome that she had a wonderful time. What is the "EYE"? My mother will be 63 in February and I only hope she is still enjoying life as much as your mother is and that I can do something special for her on her 80th birthday.
@Wizzywig (7847)
19 Dec 10
It wasnt the 'real' Eye (like a big wheel - in London) but the manchester version which I think is actually called the Wheel. Hope your mum has many more birthdays
@ElicBxn (63639)
• United States
17 Dec 10
Sadly, I lost mine last month. But I got a A+ mom in the roll of the dice as well.
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and wish you comfort in the wonderful, loving memories which I know you are cherishing x
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@ElicBxn (63639)
• United States
17 Dec 10
I am, and I know she is still taking care of me.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 Dec 10
I do feel like I am very lucky to have been blessed with the mother that I have. She and I have been close throughout my entire life and since I've been an adult and a mother I think that is even more the case between us. She was widowed at a young age and I think that has drawn us closer together than we would have ever been. There is rarely a day that goes by in my life where I don't talk to her since I also consider her to be my best friend.
@Wizzywig (7847)
19 Dec 10
Last time my mum went on a holiday, she bought me a fridge magnet which said "A daughter is a little girl who grows up to be a friend" - sounds like that applies to both of us
@iamkami (23)
• Vietnam
20 Dec 10
What a pity as reading the last 2 sentences. And I feel I'm the happier one than you 'cause my Mom is still beside me in my my happiness/sadness. When I was young, my family was not rich and she worked hard to feed and clothe me as others children. Although I'm not young now, she still keeps contact to me to have simple answers if I'm fine/having any troubles today. Today I'm a Mom and I understand thoroughly my Mom's inmost feelings. I wish I could be a Mom as her. Mommy, I love you with all my heart. :x
@Wizzywig (7847)
20 Dec 10
Yes, I know how lucky I am that my mum just lives a short walk away from me I haven't been able to visit her for a couple of days as I've been in contact with a virus that I dont want to pass on to her but we speak on the phone
@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
17 Dec 10
My mom has been gone for over nine years, and for many years was not the type to get out and about with us. On the other hand, I can see the many unique things in my personality that I got from her. It makes me who I am. My mom was 80 when she passed. It was just a year after HER mom passed at 100. Enjoy every moment you can.
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
I certainly intend to! Your gran had "a good innings" as they say Yes, I see traits of my mum in my own personality and, when people tell me I am like her, I take it as a huge compliment.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
that's nice.. i miss spending time with my mother. the last time we had a talk in person was July, her birthday. i'm working away and it's a bit costly if i go home every month plus i can't get a prolong leave or vacation. anyway, i'm planning to have one next year. hopefully so soon. i miss my family..
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
My parents lived quite a distance away for several years and it was always hard to say goodbye at the end of a visit. I hope you are able to get that vacation you're planning and have a great time
• Pamplona, Spain
17 Dec 10
Hiya Wizzy, What a nice Day out you all had then it sounds really great. I love your Mum´s Photo I did write a very small caption but no matter. For you Mum to know that you love her and care for her I don´t think she will forget that Birthday in a long long time. Here´s to many more Celebrations like that one. Love it. Doctors said my Godmother had three months to live and she lived thirty odd years more such a brave Woman. They are only Human though and I am glad that your Mum is here to tell the Story. I feel like I have been on a Day out with all of you the way you describe it there well just for a few seconds anyway.
@Wizzywig (7847)
18 Dec 10
Thank you for your good wishes. Do you know, I didnt realise people could comment of the photos on your profile so I have just been reading comments from 2 years ago that I didnt even know were there
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
I have lost my mom almost two years from now passed away last Dec 24, 2008 . Christmas Eve... When I hear news about what you've just tell us ..I'm happy your spending time with her for I wish I could still do the same but I cannot. Love your loveone's while you have them...you'll never know what you will be missing... from my personal experience its a lot..
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
I am sorry for your loss but trust that you have many special memories held in your heart. I am very grateful for the time I can spend with my mum and for the lovely walks/talks I had with my dad before he passed on 8 years ago
• United States
17 Dec 10
I never had a mom, but to read your post it sounds like you both had a lovely day. This is quite important and I commend you for being a wonderful daughter.
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
Yes, we all enjoyed the day... I dont see myself as 'wonderful' - just lucky to have a mum and one who is so easy to love.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 10
I still have my mum and spending all day with her doing something is always being the most wonderful days for me. I don't always see my mum when I'm working in another city and she always sends me a text or call me saying she misses me and wanting me to go home. Now that I'm with my family again, I always follow my mum wherever she goes and we also always watch movies together. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
I'm glad that you are also able to have such a close relationship with your mum. I hope you have lots of great days together
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
I just lost my mum back few months. But, I'm still fortunate cuz I had time to spent my best memories w/ her.
@Wizzywig (7847)
17 Dec 10
I am sorry for your loss but pleased that she is part of your best memories