Tired of being what everyone wants you to be?

Wow you got me thinking,maybe the lacking of courage,the shy and the other realistic facts etc.I think not everyone want to be special,there's people who want live theirs lives normally and guaranteed instead of taking some risky motions.Just like you mentioned the society just like a giant furnace which in it all of your bold ideas all your spirit of adventure will extinct.The world was lead by some giants whom are in a tiny minority.As for us,just live our life happy whether it was chosen by you or the other people.

What you are saying actually makes a lot of sense. It's very well said, in my opinion. We think that we're forced to be something, but we really aren't. It really is probably all in our subconscious.

It is a difficult enough struggle when you strive for what you want to be. It gets to be more of a hardship when other people expect things from you. It can wear you down.

Well to be honest I have been fighting all my life to do what I want to do and what I want to be. Though some people dislikes it and think it is not very good for my future but at the end of the day, the energies that I spent for my day to day life is not theirs. They probably think that whatever is good for themselves will be practically good for other people too. But I just don't believe that because we have a different ability over different thing. Good luck and have a nice day

Well I try to live what I feel. I try not to live just how others live, or be like others are. I also dislike people who live like they do just because they want to seem like others.

I want to become a bird,if I have a special function

Well, lets get bit deeper into the mind of people who force you in doing things according to their will. Some of them are genuinely concerned about you, like your parents. Some of them just want to give a superior air by spreading away words of wisdom. You can just ignore the later type of well-wishers. Now about the first category, some of them really want your life to be fulfilled in every way. Sometimes they have some unfulfilled dreams in their own life. They want you to advance that dream. That is how the grow expectations on you. There will always be such expectations grown around you. You need to depend on some expectations and you need to ignore some other. This is life.

I agree with your description. We know what we want to be, and we want to be who we always want to be. I am not hiding, and I just don't like people trying to label me, or make me do something that I don't want to do. That is my life, I have the absolute power to choose what I want to be and how I want to be.

I will try to answer with as i could, Maybe.. We are in hiding feel ashamed to show off. Show our true ability,because we do not feel confident.. That idea from me.. Hopefully useful.. :)

Stop thinking of being other people. The best solution is be who we are. Do what you want. The world doesn't need us just to conform with others.