Do you still dream of your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend?

Philippines
December 16, 2010 8:48pm CST
Last night,I dreamed of my ex-boyfriend who happens to be my first love. Weird though,in my dream he is broke but the last time I heard about him is he is now a successful businessman in Malaysia. We just talked in my dream,I thought it's true but then I realized it was only a dream. Do you still dream of your ex-lover? Does it mean something?
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SickFooDino
@SickFooDino (108)
• United States
17 Dec 10
I Was With A Girl For About 2 Years. It Was Pretty Much A Stable Relationship. Real, Faithful, Sexually Active, Honesty Relationship. We Broke up because I moved away. I Was really hurt. But i mean where i am now (too far away) there is no way I can maintain a long term relationship. So we broke up. And yes a few times I have dreams about her. Like flashbacks and just dreams! Sucks because I Do Miss Her, but ah its all over. Not much you can do now.
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mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Hello SickFooDino! Welcome to mylot! At least you were able to see her again through your dreams and I know that's not bad ,right? The only thing is,you miss her,well,that's life,I'm sure you'll get over with it in time. See you around!
SickFooDino
@SickFooDino (108)
• United States
17 Dec 10
Yeah Its Been A While I Am Over It. But Its Really Hard To Find A Female Like That. But I Learned To Move On And Such.
mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
That's a good step SickFooDino. I'm sure you will find another girl for you who maybe similarly like her or better than her. Happy mylotting!
Kalyni2011
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
17 May 11
Hi mtr I had no ex bf no lovers, i was married in 1966 to Professor, it was an arraged marriage, we are a very very happy couple, we live together, so no dreaming.. Thank you so much for sharing Namastey. Kalyani
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mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
18 May 11
Hello new friend! So you are the wife of Professor! He is a good friend of mine here Kalyni,just don't have enough time mylotting lately,my hubby is with us right now that's why, but he'll be back again for work abroad on Friday,huhu! I'm happy for both of you! I heard some stories about arranged marriage that are not successful,they ended up separated. See yah Kalyni! Nice to have you on my discussions,thanks!
paula27661
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
21 Dec 10
I’ve had regular dreams about my first love ever since I can remember. I haven’t seen him for many years so in my dream I still picture him as he was then. I have no idea why I dream about him; usually in the dream we just talk and catch up on what we’ve been doing during the last few years. Maybe it happens because I often wonder what kind of life he has now...
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mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
They say when you think of a person chances are you dream of him. Well,you said you still think of him so maybe that's the reason why you still have dreams about him. But I guess it's not bad at all,I can see that he is your first love and I pressume you both had a wonderful relationship. See you around!
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vicereine
@vicereine (451)
• United States
18 Dec 10
I did have a dream about my ex husband the other night but it was more of a nightmare. I was dreaming that he was being ugly to me again like he was for much of our marriage only at first it was my current boyfriend who is also a bit ugly sometimes as we are having problems right now but then it changed into my ex husbands face and he was so ugly to me in my nightmare. For me I think it is a warning that if I don't do something my current boyfriend will turn out just as bad as my ex husband and I don't want that to happen so I think I will make a change this coming new year for me for the better. I think yours though is just letting you know that things will work out for the better and new things are to come. Not sure about true dream definitions but personally I think it means things will be better for you since you are not with him anymore.
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mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
Hi friend! Sorry for the delayed reply,hehe! Oh yes,It became better that he is not with me anymore,I mean that our relationship didn't work out,so happy we're not meant for each other! I just had the thought that maybe the reason why I dreamed of him is because he's thinking about me,lol! I wish,haha! But I'm happy with my life now with my husband.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Dec 10
Dreams most times in my own opinion stem from subconscious feelings that may linger into dreams. I do not believe I have had dreams with an ex but then we did not end well so perhaps I have removed them from my subconscious thought. I suppos eit can be healthy as if the ex was a special one, then someone perhaps that we maybe not romatically but still remember from time to time.
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mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
Hello friend! I've also heard about the subconscious thing about dreams,but I don't think of him anyway,that is why I was surprised when I woke up wondering, maybe he thought of me that's why I dreamed of him,lol! Have a great day my friend!
noorad
@noorad (1)
• Saudi Arabia
13 May 11
yes , im still my ex-girlfriend
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mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Hi noorad! Welcome here! So you still dream of your ex-girlfriend,hehe! I believe it's just normal 'cause she's been a part of your life! Enjoy it here noorad!
chaos123
@chaos123 (132)
•
17 Dec 10
Dear mtrguanlao, take it easy. this dream is meaningless. Just reflect the news shock you.
chaos123
@chaos123 (132)
•
17 Dec 10
Actually, I also dreamed of a boy who I loved in high school. But dream can not come ture, I haven't seen him in the street. I wonder the place he went many times, but still can't find him. So be happy, our life still going on. You will find a man really love you in the future.