Insecure? Jealous? Or What

Philippines
December 17, 2010 9:35am CST
I have heard people say that when you are jealous, you are insecure...do you believe this?
3 responses
@vicozzio (45)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 10
I think so.. usually in relationship, people get jealous if they feel the fear of loosing someone important to them... and fear feeling is insecure feeling.. That's my opinion sis :)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
yeah, thats what I believe as well., like when you get jealous when somebody is flirting with your man or woman, it doesn't mean that you are not insecure about the the other man or woman, you are just scared of losing the someone you love right???:)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 10
That is exactly what I have in my mind sis ^_^ When my GF spent too much time with her specific male friend, I always felt afraid to loose her, and start calling her mobile phone more then I used to be ^_^ Hehehe.. And actually I don't care about what her male friend think or feel.. I'm only thinking of my GF ^_^ So.. YES! we have a same opinion here sis ^_^
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
very true!!! glad we have the same belief and understanding of the difference between jealousy and insecurity...i don't really care about the other person at all, not even envious or insecure, just annoyed and scared bout losing someone I love...I even get jealous when my friends have new friends other then me, and they spend more time together, but that was way before, don't hang out with friends anymore right now...:)
@joystick (1675)
18 Dec 10
I will say that i know a person that gets really jealous when a persons name is mentioned by other people when they go out together as a couple, also they tell the people that are out in the same pub not to mention this girls name, mind you that because they are all friends with the other girl.I think that people like that are insecure, jealous and feel that the other person may have more on offer.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
It depend what kind of jealousy? some jealous because they love , other jealous because they envy, other because they are insecure.