My family annoys me so much

@elvyra (35)
United States
December 17, 2010 3:27pm CST
What do I do if my family is annoying me too much? They're abusive too? They're brothers and boys and I'm a girl. I get so annoyed by them. Anyways I guess I can move out soon because my jobs will allow me too but I just love to save when I live with my parents. They go on and off sometimes like a roller coaster. Sometimes they're nice and sometimes they're mean, like when they have a bad day. It's just expensive and hard to live on your own. I'm not married, hard to find a good man in Vegas. I'm dead for real. Help.
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5 responses
• India
18 Dec 10
You are in a very bad Situation. I have a Family which is very Supportive Good. I can really understand that you must be in a very situation. With harassing Siblings it must be pretty hectic. And parents treat you on the basis of their moods that's just sick. Your their child and not their Toy. They must realize that.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
That's why you have family! Its always a roller coaster. You will learn that living alone is not as pleasant as you thought it would be. You will miss your family. Of course I do not know the details, but it is what it is. Family members will really be annoying one day and there are times when you just can;t live without them. When the time is right you will be on your own, so for now, enjoy your family and try to get through their annoying phases.
@whateva (786)
• India
18 Dec 10
are you sure that moving out is what you wanna do? sometimes family is all you have, they can be annoying, everyone who sticks around you for long can turn annoying but not always,if you try and remember the good points of your family i'm sure you'll find alot. you may try for a job away from the place you live right now and that way you can take a break from your family, may be thats what you need right now?
• United States
17 Dec 10
It can be quite difficult at times to deal with, but since you do not want to move out I would suggest maybe try as hard as you can to avoid them when the arguments and bickering starts. Can be quite difficult as they probably do not want to be avoided and it may make them more upset. However with time they may see that they are speaking to one another and be tamed a bit. Good luck to you hope all works out. I also see you are new to myLot so a very warm welcome to you.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
18 Dec 10
Living with family sometimes can be annoying when there are mean members around. The same thing is happening to me that is why I prefer to live independently most of the time. I can't take listening 2 of my sisters arguing and shouting at each other when I'm around because I'm just not like that and I hate arguing. I prefer to be more quite and always have something do, and if not then I will follow my mum wherever she goes. Good luck and have a nice day