I wish i can just run... runaway and never come back

Hi Chiyosan, True that there are so many depressing moments where you just want to leave off everything and escape... But somehow, I never want to run away. I have my own theory and strategy - I believe that the world is small too small and if I start running, I would run from everything. Instead face the challenge. Give it your best and if you fail despite this... give it some space of time... Time is the best healer... and DO NOT SPEND this time thinking about the loss.... use this time to prepare yourself better for the fight and then when you think you are prepared, come back and face it again... you will win. May not be effective in all cases but still you would have a consolation - you tried your best till the end. Dont be a loser... be a fighter. Cheers, theSids.

Yes, that's what I'm feeling right now, when a friend betrayed my trust to her. I felt my life is miserable these days because of her. I wish that I could just disappear because its hard to face the problem i'm having because of her. But everytime I see my children, I felt encouragement to move on and face bravely the consequences of my full trust to that friend.

Several times, I felt so when I was too young. Whenever my parents use to shout at me, I use to feel so thinking that they dont like me. But as I grew up, my thinking changed. I dont live for me but for others. I strongly believe now because of my existence someone can be happy. God has given this life to live so will not spoil this life.

Hello, Chiyosan. Life surely strikes us sometimes. We start feeling down, disappointed with others, or sad because we did disappoint the others. No matter what is the situation, whenever you feel like this, take the time to build some constructive criticism. These sad feelings are capable of making you open your eyes and expand your limits. Don't resume all your complaints to life. Don't blame others, don't blame life, blame yourself. And start wondering: WHERE do I want to get? Don't worry if it seems impossible. It surely isn't. From there, start thinking of ways to reach your goal. You will have to go slowly. Small changing of attitudes, perhaps. Something like: "I want to be happier". And from there you will start helping others whenever you see somebody in need, always talk to people, risk yourself more, start going out more, even if it is to buy food. The great secret of life is to not give up while you can still fight, I guess. Just don't put your life in the hands of others. All your goals must be able to be achieved by yourself, and yourself only, at first. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

Have felt the same many times in my lyf.. But one thing which made me stay and keep trying to achieve my target are the people around me who care for me.. I am sure for the most loneliest person in his/her life there wud be some1 to care.. The thing is some ppl are lucky to spot them and some ppl leave before meeting them.. I am lucky I shud say :)

Don't think negative things my friend. Always remember that everything has its own time. It may not be near but there is always the realizations that every thing we want will happen. Don't think that no one cares for you because someone will always be there for you no matter who you are or what you've done to your life. It is a matter of strengthening your will to survive all the trials that is set for you. We don't wait for us to succeed. We need a lot of hardwork to get it. Try to calm yourself. Do some reflections. Stay away from the stressors for awhile. Because what you need is to energize your body, heart, mind and soul and then you are good tgo.

You cam't just run away. Who are we going to get to solve all these problems???? You might not realize this but you are exactly what the people in your life need around them for them to learn and grow. We all have the power to choose what we deem important in our lives. Have you allowed others to decide this for you???? Take a moment and relax. See all the wonderful things you really have. Yes, you are lucky. Share your unconditional love and kindness with others and no one's life could be any better.

Yes I have felt this way before but stop and really think about it you can't run away from your problems, it just makes it worse you have to face them no matter how difficult they are and can be I know it's hard but running away is not the answer!! Trust me it just makes things worse! People do care your family and they will always be there for you no matter what and even if you don't believe that I do believe that when things go wrong everyone's family is there for them. Running away is also dangerous in this time or any time in the world there are so many crazy lunatics out there!!! Pleas stay safe and try not to run away, you really don't know what or who is out there!!! I hope everything works out for you, I have ran away from my problems when I was younger and I regret every second of it it was like a living nightmare!!! So I hope the next time I hear from you you are happy!! Take Care!

Hi Ciyosan!. I think we all have time like this. We feel no one cares for us. Its quite sad experience really especially when people made a judgement over you like they are personality expert. I think no one now what we are facing problem and how sad we not able to reach our expectation. I think thats something we need to learn in our life. Just another lesson in life and just don't put hope in any one to help you solve it. Just remember every thing will getting better in future, remember life is a wheel maybe today you are in the bottom but in future maybe you are in the top. So Chaiyo...

I have felt like this a lot of time in the past, and it is really depressing and tiring. So I can understand however you feel right now. Try to stay away from those who are pressing you a lot at the moment and spend time either just by yourself or go out and do something that makes you happy. I hope you will feel so much better very soon. Good luck and have a nice day

I've also been experiences the same thing, but we don't have to think too much. Get up and fight more harder, there is a way for every problem, life must go on

Yes, I felted a lot of times like this; nobody seems to listen to you, you have failed a lot of times in something and nobody is there to help you... you may need a good friend, you are just frustrated. It's normal, don't worry, just talk about it with other people and you will get some nice help ;) Best Regards

Hello Chiyosan.:) I too experience that kinds of things these past few days.Sometimes it is so hard to be positive. How can we keep a smiling face if everything is going wrong, right? It takes focus to be able to control our life the way we want it and tolerance if unexpected events happen. I have my fair share of unfortunate events. Sometimes I also want to disappear. Good thing there is my girlfriend and my small number of fiends that encourage me most of the time.

one man, one goal, one vote and one destiny every people have consequences to run their live and responsible with it. every people have goal to be want they want to be no one can hide on it every people vote their will by their self to meet someone has fit or not for their self. and destiny to face every problem in their life and cannot hide on it... so face it guys no matter hard it is....

That is how I felt when I was like 7 years old. I tried running away but I did not get far. I got hungry and went back home.

Hi chiyosan, i feel some times like that to be far away from all these things, family, relatives, friends and all other things. I don't know why i feel, i will be in depress some times that i am not doing anything and not helpful to anyone atleast to myself i feel. I want to do job, but i can't because of the family obligations, i want to contribute some of the money to my son but i am not. Always at home but no time to find some rest also. But i will compromise for the circumstances because i am woman i am in need to my family members, they require love, help from some one and who will give all these other than me, like this way i think and make my mind calm. Now i am happy thinking that i should be at home and attend my family members, do house hold work, some creativity, some part time job at home whenever time is there and look after the family well. Really this is giving me much satisfaction instead of thinking i am not going for the job. For a woman family is more important than a job. I made up my mind and it is true also. Have a good day.

I have also gone through the same thing, i think you just think too much just like me and sometimes you feel like you are just a burden to this world. In a way i think you are also depressed and its not a good thing thinking too much about it. I myself am also having the same problem and i don't know where my life is heading. Its like i already have everything i need in this life and there is nothing more i could ask for and yet i feel that i don't know where I'm heading to. Sometimes i have also been thinking that some people would even do anything just to have the kind of life i had and yet here i am in search of something more that i don't even know what I'm looking for. Just don't try thinking about it too much, have some time to enjoy life, go out with your friends and have a good time so that you could get your mind to relax and forget about those things bothering you.