Duty and obligation..!

depends on how you view your life. if you really love your family, then its fine. but if you hate your situation of being a wife then its really hard. other women would say, that their womanhood would never be completed unless they become a mother/wife

I suppose you are stating that the compromising is difficult and it can be. However when two people are in love and care very deeply for one and the other they work together and it should not be hard to be husband and or wife, as each one is working as a family.

I don't believe in duty and obligation. I believe in two people working together to help eachother, in ways that are best for them. Certain people bring certain skills to the marriage, and this is not defined by gender. For example, I am better with money then my husband, and there are some months when I happen to have more money than he does. Does this automatically mean he is not a man because he's not the provider? No it does not. It means that some months I provide the money, some months he does, some months we can put in equally. Two people need to agree on how to work together, and stick with it.

i am a wife and mother. I love being a wife and mother. Oh yeah it's hard. and there are times i just want to get away, but i love my life and i love my family. I am know that for me, the duties of being a wife is taking care of my family. Making sure they are happy healthy and living a good life. that is not always to do when you have so many different personalities you are dealing with. but so far in my family i have managed to raise three amazing children and have kept my husband very happy

I believe that it can be difficult but if you really love the other person then you will work through the issue. However some people grow apart and that is when their marriages end in divorce. I love my husband more then anything and being a mother is a gift from God.