Is your partner beautiful / handsome ?
@phillip_shiny (2330)
India
December 19, 2010 9:57am CST
Hello mylotters,
A small pop up flashed on my mind when I was in my office. Let me put this straight... Is your life partner beautiful in your eyes or everyone says she or he is beautiful. Otherwise how you want your partner to be? Do you like others saying "your husband is handsome or your wife is beautiful". Or you feel your partner is beautiful for yourself and never mind what others say?
How you categorise this one? I need some of my mylotters views on this...
Some of my friends say that she is beautiful but in my eyes I don't like it. But other times I too see them beautiful when they say she is beautiful....
Put some views on this people...
Cheers,
Have a nice day always......4 people like this
14 responses
@thenextnoel (396)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
Well, I don't have a partner at the moment. You could say I'm still out "hunting for my prey" hehe :)
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
22 Dec 10
I do think my partner is attractive of course and I have not given too much thought as to others agree with me. If other women found my husband attractive I would feel flattered too because he is mine and he chose to be with me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I don’t mind other people’s opinions as long as I’m still attracted to my partner.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 10
I don't know that my husband is beautiful in everyone's eyes, but I do know that he is in the eyes of others. The main reason that I was attracted to him in the first place was because of his personality. However, in the time that we've shared our lives with one another I've come to think that he is a very handsome man because it seems to me that he has the total package. He is attractive in my eyes and has a great personality and disposition.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
20 Dec 10
Everyone can find something beautiful or handsome about their partner. Beauty is not only skin deep. it is something in the soul. When we find that special someone who captures our hearts there will always be something beautiful or handsome to find in them.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
20 Dec 10
I feel bad for your partner, as I think I understood you only see her beautiful sometimes 
. I'm sorry if I misunderstood your words.
In my case everyone say that my boyfriend has a very cute face, and I couldn't agree more. In my eyes too he's really cute, like a doll, and I'm happy to hear that others agree with me in that. Others telling me that doesn't make me feel jealous but happy, as I know that it's not just the love filter in my eyes, but he can feel that he is really a cute person hearing it from others, and not only from me
. I'm sorry if I misunderstood your words.
In my case everyone say that my boyfriend has a very cute face, and I couldn't agree more. In my eyes too he's really cute, like a doll, and I'm happy to hear that others agree with me in that. Others telling me that doesn't make me feel jealous but happy, as I know that it's not just the love filter in my eyes, but he can feel that he is really a cute person hearing it from others, and not only from me 
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
20 Dec 10
hi,definitely it is happy to hear from others that our wife/husband beautiful/handsome...but that only gives strength to our family life.There are more other issues like understanding,trust,love,scarifying nature for partner..
and finally financial support.
If a man had beautiful wife with bad character,what can we do...
If a women had handsome husband with all bad habits what can we do............
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
20 Dec 10
I won't mind what other people say about my life time partner whether she is beautiful or not. The importance is that she is beautiful in my eye and she is always that beautiful in my eyes, that is all. There is girl I like who work with me, no one say she is pretty, but in my eyes, she is always that beautiful. Now, she no longer work there, I don't have my chance.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
20 Dec 10
There is one thing that I am flattered on my part when they told my boyfriend "How did you fool your girlfriend?" One time my boyfriend introduced me to his friends then the girl just gave him a joke "Oh wow! 
how did you fool her?" Then my boyfriend told me like YOU SEE? believe to yourself that you are beautiful and I am not the only one who says that.
On my part nobody says my boyfriend is handsome and I myself admit it that he is not that handsome but I am glad to the fact that he is not ugly. He is actually a chubby guy who has rounded face and body but baby face looks so more likely the right term that I told him that he is CUTE instead of handsome.
how did you fool her?" Then my boyfriend told me like YOU SEE? believe to yourself that you are beautiful and I am not the only one who says that.
On my part nobody says my boyfriend is handsome and I myself admit it that he is not that handsome but I am glad to the fact that he is not ugly. He is actually a chubby guy who has rounded face and body but baby face looks so more likely the right term that I told him that he is CUTE instead of handsome. 
@danverxxcore (347)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
I have exactly the same perception as yours. My partner is always admired by many, but definitely not me. She picked me, I didn't really like her at first. We had a good relationship now but still, there is a possibility it can be diverted to another person's beauty.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 10
My partner always looks good in my eyes no matter what he wears or anything like that. I never mind and never wonder about other people's opinion about his looks. My partner is also always keep himself clean and his hair tidy, but of course that is what I wanted and I'm happy that he is always listening to me about it. I also sometimes think some people are not beautiful when others think they are very beautiful, but I only say so because those people are clearly masked with thick make up, no offence Thanks for sharing and have a nice day
Thanks for sharing and have a nice day @bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
Good morning Philip,
As they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, if you thinks that your girlfriend is beautiful you must be lucky to have one you don't have an idea how many men envy you right now :D. For me looks doesn't matter as long as you love that person becoz when love is present there is no way you can see how ugly your partner is, maybe you just bit jealous everytime others praised your beautiful girlfriend :).
Besides no one in this world is ugly, we are all beautiful its just happened some people other there thinks they are more beautiful than anyone. :)
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
Why is it that people are always after the word handsome and beautiful? Anyways, we all know that society has something to say to anybody, and as a partner it is really nice to hear our friends, family o relatives "Hey your gf/bf or wife/husband is handsome/beautiful. But remember, it is not the coating of book that we like it is what's inside. So whatever complements or bad comments are after anyone's partner's name that is still acceptable. For no one can tell who is really beautiful or handsome. For it is on the eyes of the beholder as what people are always saying.
