Its too hard!!!

manjurocks, Let me assure you that you need to talk about it more than anything here where it will at least bring about a conviction that the relationship is over and motivate yourself to move on. Take care and compliments of the season.

Ah friend, a man have to die at the age of 10 so he wouldn't get his heart broken. This is one of the mandatory things in life. Everyone has experienced this at least once in his life. Only time heals the great pain you feel after loosing someone special in no matter what way you lose this person. You have to be a robot to not experience that pain. Sometimes it takes years to get over that feeling but from time to time you always will remember your feelings about this person, which is good actually because if that person was really special for you that means you've shared good moments. Remember those moments, you will experience mixed feelings, both sorrow and happiness. I hope you feel better after a while and remember only the good moments.

I have experienced this before and it truly is not an easy thing to get over. The only thing that may help is time, as time will heal wounds. Try and keep yourself busy so your mind does not continue to wonder. It has been my personal experience that both time and or another interest are the only way to get over a person. It will take time so try really hard to be patient and put some distance between the thoughts of this person. Good luck and be well.