I noticed. No one seems to be Fighting here.
By RebeLotter
@RebeLotter (253)
December 19, 2010 11:49am CST
Been there and done a lot of flaming anger insults of any sorts to a lot of users in other social networking sites. i like annoying trolls it gives fun to mess around with them, sometimes even consider cursing words too.
But when i came here, I couldn't beleive it. that's why am not so much active because am waiting for trolls to fool aruond with. I was wrong, it seems that people here are MOSTLY nice. but the reason is that admin here is active and strict. at first i think it's more dictating but i am beginning to like it here.
But am not sure which one is real, at least i know there secrets :D
Members are Cool!
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16 responses
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
19 Dec 10
Hello, i can say for myself that i'm blind for such people, who you call trolls.
I just don't see them
And also ... i think that our own attitude is helping us to think that some of the people are trolls and others are not trolls. Everything becomes fact because of our understanding for different stuff.
I never put tag labels on the people, in my own mind. I don't know why, just here is kind of open minded place, where everyone can share what he wants to share and who am i to blame someone for his own thinking?
@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
Yes, trolls i believe are way too obvious. but in some countries if they continued doing this, reoprt is the only solution.
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@megamatt (14291)
• United States
19 Dec 10
I think myLot is a rather peaceful community in general. Sometimes, we have the occasional rabble rouser, troll, what have you in this forum. However in the year that I have been here, in general, everyone has been peaceful and it has really been a great community. I think that this is what sets myLot apart from the rest of the pack. Everyone gets along for the most part. There are some tensions here and there, but hey, you'd get that anyway and the small fires are put out before they are spread.
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@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
I have never seen a community Like this in any other sites. this one has more interaction but some does it still for the earnings. they're not the attractive ones but they're still coo,.
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@anaknitatay (1335)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
Maybe you haven't looked hard enough? hehe there are some here and I've been in some exchanges myself but I found out that it's just a waste of time ranting and raving and fighting with other users.
I found making friends was more rewarding. :]
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@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
that's right. what's the use, people will regret it later on and forgive. let's just hope she would hold 0n again, just like the last time.it is indeed good idea.
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@ankitsoldak (241)
• India
19 Dec 10
Fighting ?? for what?? This is a peace zone and all the members are enjoying the discussions not fighting with each other. So always try to maintain peace as the big boss may be watching at all.
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@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
I see that you are a newbie here too. but reminded that people also react here complaining a not talking because of their skinn..
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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19 Dec 10
I love to come on this site as there are alot of nice people as well as great discussions.I have not found one nasty person on here and there are always things that interest me to discuss.I have been a member of this site now for over two years and i love it.
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@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
It's nice that you love this site. I heard rumors that theres a lot of newbies then i have obviously avoided those people.
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@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
19 Dec 10
I haven't seen any flame wars here since I joined myLot.
I don't know if the admin is active and strict but, you know what? I think the little grey pluses and minuses near our posts keep the peace here. The little signs are very powerful instruments to maintain the discussions within the limits of decency.
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@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
I have a friend but i have seen it in some forums and sites as well beside this one. but this one is even more great day. it's better if you do avoid others.
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@p3halliwel2005 (3156)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
Why want a place to fight with when it's much nicer to have peace, quiet and harmony. I don't like to fight it's negative and gives bad vibes...and fighting just makes you feel sad and restless in the end..stressful too. Mylot has been a very good site with good people. They always give positive comments and I like it here a lot..I would rather stick myself here than anywhere else. Hope you do enjoy your stay even if it's not what you expected.
@RebeLotter (253)
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2 Jan 11
wow, that's nice to know. so far i am enjoying being here but don't have the luxury of time. :D
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@thenextnoel (396)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
I've seen a couple of flame wars around here, although it's better to be a spectator rather than join the mindless fight. There are other discussions that are still respectful despite the difference in opinions. Those are the discussions I like to engage in.
@RebeLotter (253)
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18 Jan 11
I like to be just the spectator. getting involved is like throwing yourself into the fire here. too bad am not that much of a hater.
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@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
20 Dec 10
I've seen some flame wars occurring and they sure are severe. It even had to involve Alice the admin to 'partake' in it. But mostly, Mylot is a safe haven and it's peaceful so you won't find flame wars now. Glad you liked it!
@RebeLotter (253)
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18 Jan 11
thank you for the insight here and some how i will do best to avoid these people. they just don't know where to have fun i think
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@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
I don't want that to happen to me any more since i've always wonder why i got so low in my star. i am considering getting a new kind of improvement here. but i love the environment.thank you.
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@msnchatku (45)
• Brunei Darussalam
19 Dec 10
Me too...I like being here...members are responsive and till now everyone is nice
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@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
I like the way this site is being manage. got hooked up with some other stuff but unfortunately, it didn't work. some almost humiliate me with flaming words.
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@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
oh, c'mon. we are all normal ordinary people. I have seen some post that will trigger a fight but such post do not last long (thanks to admin). But, we still feel annoyed, unhappy about one lotter or another. We judst don't blurt our anger here as openly as we want to.We can rate negatively, that's the best way to get even here.
However, I'D rather see post encouraging positive remarks rather than trying to pick a fight. :)
@RebeLotter (253)
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18 Jan 11
yes we are normal people. but picking a fight is less productive in mylot. i hope others will consider being nice in this site for a change.
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@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 10
That is the reason why I'm sticking with this sites for earning extra money because the rules are strict, admin is active, and I love peace in a discussion. To be honest I do notice some people that are not very nice in replying to people discussion but not many, just few. But I don't care about it, as long as I'm doing what I like while following the rules then that's what matters. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day
@RebeLotter (253)
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2 Jan 11
I wonder why there are some very not nice, and very rude people. but lucky, the bad things is not that much worse than other forum.
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@RebeLotter (253)
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18 Jan 11
yeah, other networking sites always have these nonsense flame wars. i do hope it ends one day because it's not going to be healthy...for every one.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
19 Dec 10
I personally don't like trolls, and I am glad when they aren't prevalent here. All they are, are troublemakers, and they just don't know how to treat others, as they are rude and obnoxious. We have had plenty of trolls in here, and who knows but there might be some lurking in the background. I would prefer, that mylot stay the way it is, as it has been peaceful in here pretty much. There are some that will give others bad ratings just because and that just isn't right, but it does happen. It has happened to me a few times too, but I just took it all in stride and didn't worry about it. Mylot is a good community, and we all need to work together to kep it that way. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
Nobody likes them specially if you are being rated down somhow. i admire people like you for thank ful that i am happy here. we can't avoid them at least.
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@lyokangirl (27)
• United States
19 Dec 10
I think that's because people are honestly looking for socializing not to make insults.
@RebeLotter (253)
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31 Dec 10
most people here are indeed very civilized to the core.others just can't last them seeing them makes me realize that there is a site that can provide..
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