How do you court a CITY COUNCILOR?
@rowell_marapao (235)
Philippines
December 20, 2010 8:35pm CST
It just comes to my mind. how do you court a girl who has a reputation of a CITY COUNCILOR. yesterday she was your classmate and now she has already earned her reputation. haw do you show in public that you love her or how do you express your feelings?
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
21 Dec 10
If she was a friend yesterday then there is nothing stopping you from being friends today. A title is just that. You must give it it's due respect but more importantly you must give her the respect she wants and deserves.
Remember she is still the same woman you have always known.
The title does not change that. And why do you have to express your love for her in public. Ask her to go for coffee with you after work or on the weekend.
But make sure of one thing. Ask yourself why do you love her. That can be far more complicated than you will first think. Before you commit to telling her be sure of your feelings. It best not be simply because she is a city councilor.
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@rowell_marapao (235)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
that is why i need some advice coz she might think that i love her just because she's a city councilor.
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
22 Dec 10
Well before you do anything you must search your soul and make sure you know why you do love her. Have you loved her for quite some time but have not been able to tell her. You need to be sure of your feelings before you even attempt to let her know.
What has your relationship been in the past? Did you ever date her? Were you mostly just friends? Did she ever know how you felt about her back then or is this something new? If there has never been anything between you then you are right she will question, why now. That is why it is so important that you know.
Once you have worked all that out then all you have to do is remember she is still the same girl you once knew in school....she just grew up. Even if you had no relationship before you must know that there is no reason why you cannot pursue her now.
I am going to point you to a web site I ran across a long time ago. There is lot's of good advice about what guys need to do to attract and that is something we all could use a lesson or two in.
Check it out. I do hope it will give you some ideas.
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/dating-tips/
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@juneevee (106)
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
That's tough, of course there are prying eyes around. But when it comes to love, that doesn't really matter. Just think that she's not a city councilor, but a lovely lady. From there, you can be yourself and do your thing to show her that you love her.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Dec 10
hi rowell marapao why You court her just like she was still in class with you as she probably has enough of people kissing up to her so be yourself as you were when you were in school together.oh be a little more mature but treat her as a friend and build from there. good luck and God bless.
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@asiamooner (418)
• Philippines
17 Feb 11
you knew her before as she is, you know her now that she is special in the city....questions....do you really love her? or you like her for being popular? or you are saying you like her before and now you start loving her coz she is there at the helm? if you do love her, you know what to do,....it takes great men to see love and great men to express it truly.
