you have really to change??. . .for love!
By jepoi17
@jepoi17 (118)
Philippines
December 21, 2010 11:23pm CST
. . .for me my lotter i don't wanna change myself
for the expectation of the people around me and
i don't wanna act like innocent person just to say
that i am good know why?
. . .because it is better to hate me for who i am
that to love me by that person to who i pretend to be!!
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7 responses
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
22 Dec 10
Hi jepoi: I agree with you on the fact that we shouldn't pretend to be someone that we really are not. But at the same time I think that is good to hear the advices of the persons that really love us or appreciate us and if we are making a mistake it's good to try to change some of our negative aspects.
ALVARO
@mhore25 (3)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
weLL I think It is great Idea for those people who had a "Bad Habit" ... Like Smokers, drinkers, smugglers, criminals, killers ofcourse and many more... if he/she can change to a good person for his/her love one. well i can say he/she really love and care to his/her partner...
but in the other situation.. changing a personality just to have the attention or love by his/her prefer... is like creating another person that is not really existing... who lives in the World Of UNtruth.........
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Hi Jepoi..... Change not for other people just to please them, but change for your self and for your own good. You don't to please your love one by pretending whom you are not really you.. because in time it will naturally come up who really you are.
Changing your self for others is just like fooling your self, Why don't you just make that person as an inspiration for you to change but not a reason to change.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
22 Dec 10
A good approach. But, why in such rude. If you are good then there is no need to change for anyone and for any sake. But, if you feel that you are not good then there is an ultimate necessity to change yourself.
@nereidiane024 (292)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
wow! i like your line better to be hated that to pretend to what and who you are. but come to think of it, why need to pretend if you can be loved by who you are and what you are. its not what you can give to that certain person, but what you have is enough to know your true being and personality. being honest to yourself is the next step to be honest to others and in return they will trust you too. just be true to yourself, if they wont accept you for who you are, then its not your lost anymore. happy mylotting.. :)
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Yeah, being real is better than being good looking by pretending. The purpose of LOVE or romantic relationship (as i perceived it to be referred here) is not to impress someone but to enjoy each other's company and share each others' lives in good times and bad. So don't ever change or pretend to be somebody for the sake of love, because it actually isn't love. :D T'was nice answering your post! God bless you! Have a happy life! :D
