love till it hurts!

Hi jepoi, True love never hurts anybody for this love is God. We are just confused of what is really love means. Vulnerability comes to an in loved person because he/she wants best for his love ones.

i don't think it is possible to truly be in love and not get hurt at least a little.

Love is always hurt those who really love. But you said love more when you get hurt try another one and try until it ends. You know in love there are lots of emotions almost all of feelings like joy, sadness hatred and so on including you said hurt. But this is the rule of love and i experience it already. Those who are really inlove and truly in love this will happen if no match came up. Just relax and be patient time will come that the true happiness will come. For the meantime if you fell in love again don't fall in full let the 30% remain for you.. I will tell you who has the most love has and it has the "unconditional love" that you never cry when you find it. Just look up and see HIM looking at you loving you in full and no condition. A perfect love all over the world! Merry Christmas!

Hi jepoi: I think this is a hard combination but I have experienced this feeling, specially when I was expecting something from a person I love and this person hasn't done it. Sometimes you love but you don't recieve love from the other person and it's a really sad situation. I think it's very difficult to follow your advice. ALVARO

I had terrible experience of pain in the name of love but I have to forgive to let go of my past but it took me years before i forgot about him..I would say it was a blessing in disguise because after him I found somebody who truly love me.!

yes, I have experienced falling in love and being hurt by people I love, and it was not wearing my heart. and it's hard to forgive the mistakes that had he done to me and it takes a long time to be able to forgive him. because it is not easy to forgive the pain he has given me. and I can only hope that the law of karma befall him.

i have had my share of loving, being hurt, being betrayed... it is soo hard to be in such a position. i wish i could love and just love some more even if it hurts me already... but when it happens to me, i usually would step back a while to assess and try to stop myself from loving....

I hate to be the one to break this news to you but real love is not about pain and hurting. A person is not capable of loving someone else if they don't love and respect themselves. . If you love someone truly and that person does not love you back then you should not feel pain. Love should be freely given, with joy, not with the expectation of getting the same in return. I wish you joy.

Being in love is always painful especially when you dont get the love that you expect to receive back. Once, a person told me, if you are really love this person, you must not expect anything in return but the fact that one way love does not work at all in a normal relationship. Sad but true.

hello jepoi, When you found yourself being in love you should always think that there is only two path to take it's either to be love or to be hurt :)No person would choose to be hurt by someone they love but in some situations we can't avoid it :(. Remember the more you get hurt the more you become a better person. :) have a nice day!

I will never forgive him. LOL

i agree! when you love, always be prepared to get hurt,, you better not enter the world of love if your too afraid to be hurt,, i have been in to love, and i've been to hurt,, but still keep on loving him as much as he loves me,, and i can feel that our love right now is getting stronger,,

when you love some one or you are going to love some just keep it in mind that you are becoming weak to her.when you love some one she gets the power to hurt you while the other cannot hurt.so it is natural to get hurt by your ex girlfriend.and as the love is love which you cant forget evr,so you get the massive shock.

jepoi17, Reading what you have posted, I cannot help recall the words of the prolific Mother Teresa who once said: “I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.” Somehow, I just want to add that when we talk about loving a person, everything MUST come from within - if the acceptance is not genuine from our inner self, the top-to-down demands issued by our minds will not be assimilated into motivation to change our circumstances. Because if we do, then basically we are only trying to dissolve this crisis through artificial pressure. And, if it ever hits our breaking point, we will probably implode, especially when we are caught simultaneously in a low emotional state. Also, we need to understand that not all Love is the Love we know. It doesn't matter whether you end up being a heterosexual or a gay person because you live with the consequence based on the choice you pick. Love does not discriminate it's cosmic lesson because everyone suffers various degree of pain or hurt in Love. Sometimes people must understand the concept of falling, before they realized that they can't really run unless they first learn to walk.

Hey Jepoi! I think you have a good point. When we fall in love we accept the fact that we may get hurt. That's part of it. Even though we get hurt, we seem to like the love so much that we do it over and over until we find the right person for us. Even then we hurt each other. Hopefully, now that we've chosen our life partner we know how to fix the hurt. That's one of the best parts of love, making up!. You cant have one without the other. Its just the way it is. Right now Im with my soul mate. Seven years ago I found him and we've been at each others side since our first date. I took a chance and I won! Dont get me wrong there's hurt. Terrible sometimes but we manage to get thru it! If for some reason we dont stay together I will cherish the love we had and the hurt. Its all part of the package! I say to all reading this: GO FOR IT! Dont live your life safe go for love no matter how much it hurts, It feels soooooo good too. Happy Holiday dl

I'd rather stay single. All my love and devotion is for my furkids, they're deserving of my love. I've had enough pain in my life from people.

Yeah i do most of the time! I believe that when you fall in love you must accept the fact that in some point it will hurt you also. It will hurt us in different ways, in any situations, and in anytime. But I guess that we should't make that hurt ruin us as a person. Being is the best tool to make us a stronger person. We should take every step of the way as a learning process that will help us grow and be a better one, that let it destroy us! Me I know that when i love someone i love them with all my heart, no grudges, no hold backs, no reservation, no expectations. That's why i end it or let go of it ... i always end up happy still! I know that behind every beautiful person there is a dumb person who did us wrong and made us strong! ;)