Do you trust people easily OR ......?

HiKiran madam, you may be correct madam,but according to the situation we have use other people to show that we are trusting them,but regarding money matters,if it is yours it will come if not it will not come,i have seen several cases like that,we are giving money you have to think that,that money is not yours like that,have you trust me regarding money matters,but regarding if it is in my extent i will do for you and trust you,have a nice day

Take it from an old pro. I've been around the block trusting people. Most of the people that I trusted stole me blind in the end. The old friendship thing just doesn't happen much anymore. Beware, people have motives for friendship!

I'm a very easy to trust others. That said, this is my weakness. Many people who often take advantage of my weakness. But I always try not to easily believe, though the results are not good.

No, I do not. It takes years for me to trust someone. But I used to be so trusting when I was younger, but then people ruins my trust.. so now.. I do not trust that much already.

At first, when i first started getting out on my own i was kinda gullible. As time went by and more lies flew, I started to set a criteria for who I trust and at what level i trust them. Once in awhile my big heart gets in the way, and i will trust someone that I barely know, and end up learning the lesson again. I try to trust my gut. Sometimes my gut tells me hey i get a bad feeling about this.I tend to avoid those people that give me that bad taste.

I and one of my friend met online. He wanted to meet me after 2months of chatting. But frankly I didn't trust him. so I took some time and postponed it. He didn't misunderstand it and took it in apositive way. After 6months we met. Because, by that time I already knew that I can trust him, he is not that bad. I think everything needs time sothat you know if you shoud trust that person or not. I really odnt trust a person at first site. I judge him/her very much. Then only I put my on them.

Hi Kiran, I used to be one of those overly trusting people. I just could not imagine how awful and coniving some people can be. Got burnt a lot and learned. I'm pretty careful now and my trust radar is more fine-tuned. I don't get used or taken advantage of too often anymore.

Hey Kiran! Unfortunately I do trust to easily. I get sucked in and end up regretting it in the end. Its funny though because if you knew me you wouldnt believe this because Im the one who doesnt take any crap from anyone. People come to me when they need help. I can help anyone else and give them advice on who not to trust and who they can but I dont take my own advice. I must admit that about a year ago I made some changes in my attitude and behavior and Im not as trusting anymore. Im the type of person who is a FRIEND til the END. By this I mean that I will go the distance for you. Unfortunately Its not reciprocated. My fiance used to get so MAD at me! Since Ive mad some changes Ive opened my eyes as well. Now Im at the point where I trust NO ONE until they earn it. My life is so much better as far as the drama is concerned. My advice to anyone in this same predicament is that as much as we want to see the best in people, society is very complicated these days. For our own safety we must go slow and really take the time to listen and understand where people are coming from. DONT give out your information to YOUR MOTHER much less a stranger. I dont mean this disrespectfully. Im simply saying that some things are for you only. That was my problem I started to feel bad and the next thing you know Im giving them clothes, food, rides, then before I know it I have a room mate. NOT ANYMORE! Just be careful and cautious in all areas of your life. Make no decisions until you have thought them out carefully! If you make caution a part of the meeting people, friend or romance, you'll be ok. And if you do make a friend and they are being pushy, tell them you are in the habit of taking things slow. Getting to know a person is the best part. If they get offended or an attitude. DROP em like their hot. Happy MyLotting and Happy Holidays. dl

I think that it depends on the person. I just usually trust my instincts. My trust for someone might change over time, but sometimes it doesn't. But when I first meet someone, I usually listen to my instincts.

I usually begin to trust people after I come to know them over a period of time. Even then, I have been let down on occasions.

I generally feel like you do. If I have just met someone, I give them the benefit of the doubt and trust them, until they give me reason not to. I don't trust them completely with my money or my secrets until I know them better. My initial instinct upon meeting them is usually right. There have been exceptions of course, but none come to mind so they must not have been much.

I tend to be a pretty trusting person. I open up about myself maybe a bit too much at times. I tell people about my life fairly openly, but it wasn't always that way. In high school, I didn't tell anyone that I grew up in a cult until I was 13. I just wanted to forget that part of my life and start anew. I became really involved in high school extracurricular activities, but didn't really gain any true best friends. Everything was just sort of on the surface and I would mostly only hang out during school hours. I guess I was so busy with extracurriculars that that's really all I was allowed to do. Plus I had no interest in drinking or smoking or going to parties and to a certain extent boys (I had crushes but was too shy to act on them at all and I'm somewhat glad I waited to date although the first heartbreak nearly ended my college career because I became so apathetic and depressed after it). In college things changed again. I went by my nickname and disclosed my past to everyone I met and enjoyed sharing that part of my life. Enough time had passed. I became very sick in college and have been battling one illness after another and have been very open about it with my friends, a lot of whom have come to visit me in the hospital and have been crucial in cheering me up. I prefer to think positively and think that my various illnesses make me a more interesting person instead of being an invalid. I've only had one bad experience and that was very minor so I don't think I'll change the way I act around people. I go to a very smart school (Caltech) and they are generally very accepting and tolerant of people especially since no one is perfect. A lot of my friends have trouble and we get through them together. I finally have true good friends and it's great.

hi, i dont trust people easily, of course i need to know first the information, and observe the person for how many days, i will only trust person when i always with him/her.

i trust people after sometime.after working with him and watching him when i am in problem what he does i chose to or not to believe him..and also i think i can understand peoples mentality just only looking at their eyes and lips.someone may make fun out of it,all my friends used to do.but now they beleive..i am blessed with that power..

I trust people easily and I do so because I think that I am good at judging people by their speech and body language.My hunch has never gone wrong so far.

I am not easy to trust, someone else. Because I had a bad experience, because it is too easy to believe, other people. Now I am more careful.

For me ,in fact I still believe other people easily,I always feel that the world is very beautiful,and the people around me is so good, no need to exist hostility between each other,then hurt each other,actually think carefully the cognition is actually a bit silly get,actually the world we live is not safe far from what we think ,danger always exists,so in our life or carefully point,trusting carefully consider before,the other party is worth your trust.