what will you do when your husband-to-be doesn't think highly of you?

How can a marriage be legal when you don't have a marriage certificate. It is as good as not married at all. If you are truly his, he should be contacting you constantly and leaving you without any news of him is a little weird. Since he has been contacting you through MSN before I am sure you can take the initiative to contact him through his email. If he refuse to respond then there must be something very wrong with the relationship. Since you are not legally married to him, you are considered still single in the eyes of the law so why wait for a man who show no interest at all.

Hello friend, strange situation. Wedding doesn't mean real marriage, am i right? I take it more as celebration, nothing more, may be because my opinion about the marriage is not so good. For me, it's only show for the guests and kind of personal emotion for the people, who get married. How long have you been with your boyfriend, before you make a wedding? Where did he go then? Did he wanted to get married for you, or it was decision because of your parents?