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Love comes at the most unexpected places and time...some leave soon but many stays for good...Ever since, I am a firm believer of love...I am the hopeless romantic type...I have fall in and out of love so many times but what happened didn't change my views that my prince charming is waiting for me somewhere...I had some puppy love as what others call it at a very young age but my first serious relationship was when I was already in college.,I was 16 then (1999) when one of my classmates courted even if I was one of guys that time, he became my boyfriend, buddy, best friend and all that stuff. we lasted for 4 years and my life only revolves around him. He was nice but he was the possessive type...My entire college life was guarded because if ever he saw some guy just talking to me, he would really confront that guy and he become so violent..but still thought that he was the man I am going to marry. Until one day, after 4 long years, I realized that we are no longer like the way we were when we first became lovers, everything has changed. Just when we are already getting ready to settle down because we graduated at the same time and we both passed the Criminology board exam,everything about us have fallen apart...we needed space, we needed to grow up, but he didn't want to, he just made me feel like I was not there anymore, I was no longer needed, so I stopped fighting...I did my sweet revenge to make him feel all the pain that I was going through because of him...I went out with another man and I didn't tell him. When learned about it, his world fell apart and he didn't dare to see me again..And again, my relationship with the man I used for my revenge didn't work so we split up...My life moved on, I became a college teacher in the school where we graduated and have meet guys along the way..every relationship started great, but all ended soon..I couldn't remember how many times I cried, and but I remember how many men cried over me leaving them unexpectedly...lol...which was true..After what happened with my first long term relationship, I never trusted anyone with my life anymore..I learned to play games and I see to it that I will win...Since then, I decided to stop leading my life, I just go wherever it is leading me to, I never taken any man seriously...Until one day, I met this Man I knew a very long time ago...He was also my classmate and "crush" in college but I never had a chance to know him well because I was fully guarded and he was the introvert type back then..we had a little chat in the street because he was a Policeman and he was on duty..I knew that nothing has changed...Even if he was already in that Police officers uniform overbearing with pride, he was still the same person i knew before, shy, down to earth, and kind..I invited him over lunch, but he refused so I just decided to ask for his number and my reason was that I was going to organize our class reunion...lol.,truth is, I just want to ask for his number thats all...then we start exchanging messages., and he confessed that he liked me when we were in college but he was just too shy and I was committed to somebody else...Since then, we shared this mutual feeling towards each other but we were just too shy to admit...I knew, he liked me, but i knew he wouldn't really make a move because he see me as someone who would not take him seriously...and so I decided to play another game, it was suppose to be a game but it went out to be the start of out life together...one morning of May 16,2009, I woke up late because we were out with some friends the night of May 15th..The night ended by him fetching me home but not saying anything...lol...I was really waiting for him to say something, but he didn't...so I did what I was expecting from him myself...I text him these words "i love you"...but i never received any reply...I thought I was rejected but if I will be, i will just tell him that it was just a joke and to not take that seriously because I was just kidding...I waited, but still received no reply...so I text him again to have lunch and to take care...He replied, asking me if the message I sent him was true and I answered "yes" with all honesty...yes I was playing a game but I honestly felt that i already love him but just too scared to admit it...Luckily, he said that he felt the same way with me so on that very same day, we were not anymore friends, we were lovers...our relationship was great, we never argue, all days were beautiful so after 3 months of being lovers, we decided to get married...We lived in one roof on our 3rd month as couples and after 2 months of preparation, we got married and that day of Oct 25, 2009, we were already husband and wife...that was the happiest day of my life...Finally, I got married to the Man I was waiting for all my life...everything happened so fast, and everything happened for one reason...It was destiny!...Now we are still happily married, enjoying being parents to our beautiful son and still facing life's ups and downs together...I hope you already have found your destiny...and for those who are still waiting...keep hoping and always remember this quote " There will always be one true love for you, to have and to hold, it may not be the one you expect, but its the one you expect...Please share to me your precious love escapades...thanks for reading and forgive me if its very long...lol :)actually it is still to be continued..... :)