Do you still remember your first mylot friend?
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
Calgary, Alberta
December 22, 2010 3:03pm CST
When i registered in mylot I think i have no activity for 2 months, Then I saw a discussion and the person i think created her first discussion ever, her avatar is her picture. What does she looks like....I'll keep to my self. That is the first person who said "happy lotting" to me which i didn't get. That persona added me as a friend and she responded in my first few discussions then after 50 posts she quits. 6 months later I removed her on my friend list due to lack of activity. So that is the story of my first mylot friend.
Then my second friend is this "girl" who flirts with Lamby and she got suspended for some violation, i think she is caught for having multiple accounts.
11 responses
@EnslinPorter (1718)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
My first friend in myLot was a guy. We "met" on his discussion and he was asking about watercolor pencils and how these are used. We discussed about other art materials too. We added each other as friends here and on Yahoo! Messenger too. I think he was only able to post around 300 discussions/replies but became inactive. As I remember, he had a wife and a kid.
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@EnslinPorter (1718)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Totally. It's sad we lost communication. It was great though, because I met a nice person.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Dec 10
As they say nothing last forever. Thats why my relationship to mylot friends are more of the professional side. I prefer to be anonymous so people will still go for the mystery and they wont feel bad if ever i decided to leave or they left, there will be less emotional attachment.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Dec 10
Isnt it sad that someone quits everyday even if they already had gone too far. Based on what you say you already lose communication with him.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
23 Dec 10
Hi Captain,
I was referred to this site by one of my friends from Philippines. She and I were working together on some assignment and I was still recovering from my illness. She mentioned that this is a legit site and I should join here. I joined with her as my referer. She was automatically my first friend here.
I like you was inactive for two months and even didnt log in here LOL! Then when it started, my first friend was TomiTomi. I remember we met on some discussion related to positive thoughts and meditation and that was it, we became friends.
Unfortunately, tomitomi is occupied with other works and is not that regular these days here.
Cheers,
theSids.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
23 Dec 10
Tomitomi is from Aingapore and its a very busy country, Well I also have work but I have time with mylot due to multitasking, i actually miss Tomitomi too. I enjoyed talking to that great person.
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
hi! when i joined mylot, i didn't know whose link it was. lol it was a random message and it caught my attention. i browsed the site and when i joined... voila! i got my first mylot friend who is the referror. hehe nicolec is a very nice lady but only became active during my first few months here in the site.
the first mylotter i really added was an indonesian cutie, forgot her name. but after hitting more than a hundred or so posts she became inactive. there were random mylot friends in the list whom i stayed friends with in the discussions as well as thru emails and chats. but most of them are now inactive.
markmoney is whom i consider my first mylot friend since he's the first one i met in person last year. he introduced a business to me which i still do until now and we still keep in touch thru online, mobile and a few bonding times.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
23 Dec 10
Though you are not my first mylot friend, Youa re the one I can call first real Mylot friend I have, When i was just starting I didnt struggle because you found them interesting, so you did kinda helped me attract people to my discuss ions, So before you became inactive, you already helped me much because some of your friends became my friends too. You helped to have the exposure, Thanks.
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
whoa... i am so touched. hehe to be indirectly responsible for some of your exposure in mylot discussions. hehe really it didn't cross my mind. lol
you're very much welcome. lol
although, for the record, it's your discussions which is the main attraction why people flock around your posts regardless of nature or topic. and i really appreciate the BRs that you have given before... sometimes, it was a bit too much, that it's a bit embarassing because people might think you are biased when giving BRs. lol i remember at one point the whole page of my BRs came from you. hehe
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
23 Dec 10
Hi Albert,
This is nearly three years I have been on mylot and very clearly remember the person who became my friend. But unfortunately his account too got suspended for what reason I know not and the second one is still there.
The later one guided me through the do and dos nots on mylot and we are still friends.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Dec 10
My 2nd mylot friend is banned to for having multiple accounts as suspected by many people because 2 people are banned at the same time and that gives everyone the assumption those 2 are the same person.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Dec 10
I think my refferer is my first one too but I talk about who is the first one you added or added you. anyway did your refferer interacted to you? Mine didn't do anything. so she is also part of the reason why I deleted my account. My new referer is my mylot friend who is always in my discussions.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Dec 10
Just be active everyday and you can find lots of them. Read the rules and guilines for additional help.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
For me not but it is not my important as long as I was involve here in my lot.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
What's up with the 'firsts' whisker? Lol. Can't remember the first friend i added here. I guess it'll always be a mystery to me. Lol
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
23 Dec 10
O__o Whaaat? Please elaborate? I didnt get it at all. Make it a bit longer so we'll be talking.
@jackjill123 (405)
• India
22 Dec 10
dear cat,
I remember my first myLot friend. She is girl. Now she is my good friend.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
22 Dec 10
wow you mentioned a name, Its nice you are still friends with your very first mylot friend. do you still remember the first discussion where you met?
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
Hi there!
Yes,I still remember my first friend here and she is kathie,she's also from my country,she's been so helpful to me 'cause I'm having questions about my profile,we are talking in private messages here and I'm happy she always respond to my messages at once. But now I don't see her,maybe she's inactive,for sure she is busy,hope to see her again here. I already gained friends and I was able to know them a bit through the discussions,it feels so good to discuss many things here in mylot 'cause my friends have been so supportive of my discussions.
See you around!
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
23 Dec 10
I think when I was still a newbie, I was able to edit my profile because lamby created a discussion about it. So I followed his instructions. I did get help with my friends too, I ask help in my discussions so they will get responded but I kinda stopped doing it cos I lose some friends because of it. i think i annoyed them. so now I just cross fingers when I have discussions with no responses.