i always donot know what is the best way to dealing things!
@callofwind2010 (70)
China
December 22, 2010 11:34pm CST
well,maybe this could be rusluted to be " skills". When facing problems, i donot know how to deal and was afraid of making that screwed. Some decisions are not be made by me, but my workmate, because she is the niece of our boss, and if i dinot tell her, she will regard me of untalktivess. And when i was going to tell her, she will say" Go away, i am busy now"..
oh,gosh,that is really annoying and fraustrating...
5 responses
@fgb_fritz (278)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
think as many as you can, think even up to hundred times..
you should think the good and bad of what you are thinking..
list the good and bad
and thats the time you can decide...
but in the end, you know youself
if your decision is right
@alfred8 (61)
• China
23 Dec 10
I suppose you should learn to deal with your things by yourself.Other people can only give you advice but not decisions.The way of dealing with things is various.And Everyone needs get the most suitable one to self from carrying out.In other words, people should grow up with handling things.
@lovecimi (41)
• China
23 Dec 10
Me either. Especially when I am in the office. My boss is really difficult to talk and always hating the ways our national dealing things. And he don't intend to accommodate the environment. So I am always hesitate between my boss and other colleagues. When they didn't agree with each other, I would be the doormat. I hope I will have a good way to deal things making all of them satisfied.
PS: I am the newcomer in my company.
@callofwind2010 (70)
• China
24 Dec 10
wow~~that really a problem. when finding things are not closed to resolve, please get out of there. i think that is the best choice
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
23 Dec 10
Well that's the main problem isn't it? No one knows what to do when one encounters such problems. If everyone knew what to do then there wouldn't be a problem anymore would it?
That's the beauty of a problem. No one knows what to do as long as they are in it. Then only their minds would work. The more deeper they are in the problem the more they would understand what to do and what not to do. Till then they are just a nobody again.
Cheers!
@callofwind2010 (70)
• China
23 Dec 10
yes,you are right, but there is no time to think about that when the problem came tome and say "hello" to me...
ah,,, is this the real meaning of life...
@merisabriggs13 (33)
• Canada
23 Dec 10
Well, what I would do would be to take a deep breath, and relax. I know this might sound tipical, but relaxin calms your body down so you can think properly. If you get really angry and freak out at someone (maybe the niece of your boss) you might regret it later on, which would suck.
