could i be angry?
By Sissi321
@Sissi321 (130)
China
December 23, 2010 9:27pm CST
today is merry christmas,my boyfriend at first say they have party in their company,and can't stay with me?but then they make it at 25th,then he tell me have this holiday with me?i am angry...because i think the christmaw eve is so special and important,i also have company activities,but in my heart i have decided to stay with him this eve...but when he has the choice,he choose the company activites at first,when they have no choice,he stay with me ?should i be angry?am i right?
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8 responses
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 10
be patient guys.
why be angry, then that is your Christmas Day be a day your breakup. should not resist the emotion and the emotion. for you and your partner can enjoy Christmas day for the better and could be more romantic again.
rather than having to get angry that is uncertain, which could make him hurt and afraid of your anger. wow,,, really very unfortunate if it continues to let emotions control our body and soul. we might carry over into violence.
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
24 Dec 10
I don't see how you would not be invited to a company party for your boyfriend. He should want to spend it with you, but if its any consolation, it happened to me too the very first year I was with my husband before we were married.
He had an ex and two boys. She let him get the boys to spend the night with us that was 5 hours away, so he went to get htem and only got to keep them overnight and had to get them up by 5 am because SHE expected them to be BACK home Christmas by noon. So he spent the whole day driving up and back on Christmas day.
I found a homeless shelter to serve food to so I would not be by myself as we had just moved to a different state and I had no family around.
It was if his ex KNEW she could keep us from spending the day together.
I honestly understand how you feel!
Merry Christmas to you sweetie and hope yours turns out better than mine did that year!
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Hello Sissi,
I know how you feel. There are guys who are naive and insensitive to simple things they might brought to girls feelings especially those memorable and especial days.
I know how sad and upset you are but still don't be angry instead take note of his performance.. Priorities must be identified and weight.
But i do believe in "If there's a will there's a way". I have been through a lot of parties and hectic schedules but its just a matter of choice of whom you like to be with or bring along with.
I don't intend to deepen your feelings, i knew your hurt somehow but perhaps this things happened for reasons. Its the right time to reflect and ponder life. A time to evaluate and assess our years performances with our love ones.
May the spirit of Christmas shine unto our heart and will greet together a Happy Birthday Jesus Christ!
@ganeshprabhuk (1722)
• India
24 Dec 10
I feel you should not be angry with him at all because he may feel his presence at Company will help. So dont worry neither today tomorrow he will have for you. So please dont be angry. He loves you that is more sufficient.