studies Vs lover
By jaguar0194
@jaguar0194 (76)
India
December 23, 2010 11:29pm CST
STUDIES VS LOVE
M talking about teenagers here not adults of marrying age.There ofcourse should be free time and if that is spent with girlfriend or boyfriend.Yes humans need love.
Choosing between Romantic relationship and studies can be axtremly difficult for the average teenagers.
for me,in love vs studies,studies comes first.There is nothing wrong for engaging in boy girl relationships,but school or colleges responsibilities must be the priority.But i noticed many times when ever lover give u miscall on Cell even it what should be the day or night time.they should be ready to give the response to that miscall,but during exam time we plan to wake up early morning for studies and put alarm.but alarm helping you wake up but one little miscall from lover we wake in a second.
9 responses
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
24 Dec 10
well when I was in highschool I got a bf and we lasted till 5years yes im his gf till collage Im 2years younger than him and guess what...
I dont really have time to study coz hes always there and in our house.. (maybe its my fault coz I chose too) I mean he cant even understand that he should give me sometimes for my studies....
very funny when your young you think who you are with now might last forever...
and based on my experience I SHOULD HAVE FOCUSED ON MY STUDIES...and done better! Im not really bad though I always belong to the highest section but I wasnt able to give the best that I can becuase I am distracted...
and it ended his not for and wasted 5years of my life with him... everytime I will thinkabout it..I wanna laugh and tell myself how stupid I am..
so STUDY HARD! its the best weapon you'll ever have and it will never leave you:)
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
24 Dec 10
lol wrong spelling college and because.. wish mylot will allow us to edit!:)
@jaguar0194 (76)
• India
7 Feb 11
thanxs for giving time for this discussion. best of luck for your bright and long future.
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
25 Dec 10
Well, as for me, am still in university and still single. I guess that nowadays girls wants full attention from their boyfriend but of course, some different. If am want to be in boy girl relationship, i would choose a girl who will understand that my studies are as important as her and she should let me put it first because it will be most probably our future if i do well.
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 10
I think you guys should learn to prioritize, because the lesson is very important to us. instead we should get married at a young age and it's not something that should be done by teenagers. because at that age still need a more mature, learning to think about his future later.
and let be a happy family without a heavy load.
whatever you want to live happily or much expense?
@onlinetraveller (473)
• India
24 Dec 10
if you can manage both at a time is difficult
better to concentrate on studies an career
@bigcgifts (87)
• United States
25 Dec 10
always put education first it should be one of the top priorities in anyone life. a good education can open alot of doors that would normally be closed. anything worth having is not going to come without a steep price. so you have to put romance on the back burner for a little while, just think of the romance you can have later in life with proper education. If they truely care then they will be there for you and help you complete your task in education. no one can fault anyone for trying to better themself. you don't have to spend all your time studing but you do need to balance out romance and the books.
