its her birthday
By manjurocks
@manjurocks (34)
India
December 24, 2010 12:17am CST
Dear all,
Its christmas tomorrrow...each n every one of u will be celebrating enjoying...But not me. Because tomorrow is my ex girlfriend's birthday, We had broke up 4 months ago.. I am in a dielama that i should wish her or not. U might be thinking what's the problem in wishing her...the problem is that my birthday was on 2nd December and she DIDN'T wish me...she gave the reason that she didn't have my new no. But i was sure that she knew it. We broke up but never fought..it was because of our parents...I strongly believed that she loved me very much but after seeing that my heart was broken....am thinking that if she doesn't reply me properly...my heart cries...if i don't...I'll be feeling guilty....am EX to her but she's still my girlfriend.....I still love her a LOT...so...any advice??
8 responses
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
Hi there manjurocks!
I beleived we all make our own happiness and our own misery in life. If we choose to be happy,do whatever it is that could make you happy. If you want to be miserable then do nothing at all. So which do you like,happy or misery? It's better to do what you feel what you want to do than to do nothing but have doubts in the end.
Happy holidays!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
24 Dec 10
Oh manjurocks I am so sorry that your heart is so torn.. I so wish your love could be reciprocated dear. Please take time for yourself and take care of you.
Time is the only thing that will heal your broken heart. I wish you the best, and remember take the time for you.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
hello manjurocks!
well, there are times we should have to let go of the person whom we loved so much.
you have said that you are an ex to her so,i think she is beginning to put an end to what has happened to you both,or maybe it's just she is still wanting to give space and time for both of you about the relationship you have right now. we don't know what people thinks in a certain situation unless they open their selves to us. if you really loved her still but she don't love you anymore,just let it go. it's not worth it a try if love is only one sided. it has to be two sides to be felt unconditionally. hope you have a wonderful christmas ahead!
@anitoton (389)
• Kolkata, India
24 Dec 10
if she is the one who decided to break up then i think there is no need to wish her.because just a family problem can not destroy a love,you have to fight for it.someone's family accepts there love easily but someone's not.but they fight for that.
so my opinion is to wish her if you started the topic of break up otherwise you should not..
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
24 Dec 10
Life does not stop running because of a love, no matter how much pain should go away, no matter how much you struggle, you put your order in right thoughts, you regain your confidence. That does not mean that you still love her and know her, you can not congratulate her birthday, and eventually send them a gift. You'll feel better and you'll be back with you as you proceeded to dictate how your heart and I'm sure like her, despite the fact that you are separated, whatever the reasons for separation, will greatly appreciate the gesture ... Good luck in making better decisions!
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
24 Dec 10
Hi manjurocks, i can understand your situation. If you like to wish you just wish her because you love her. May be she also still loving you but not expressing to you some times gap also will give us some solution is it real love or not, you can make out only when you apart for a while. But i can tell you if a girl really love a boy then she never forget him in her life time and don't want to miss him. If circumstances may do so, still she loves him silently. That is my analysis. So don't hesitate to wish her. She may feel happy and you too, may be you both become one again. I wish you all the best.
Happy Christmas and say Happy birthday to her also from us.
Have a great day.
