I'm falling for someone I haven't met O.o

How long have you known each other? Maybe it's better to see him personally. Seeing someone personally is different from virtual world. There you would realize your true feeling for him. But be careful. I also had a 'textmate' one time and now, we're very good friends.

Hi Lyn, Thanks for sharing your adventure. :O) &, of course, it's possible to fall for someone you "haven't even met yet!" :D You know it is, since it's happening to you, Lyn. Okay, ignore what I'm saying if you feel I do too much "mind reading," here. Obviously, I can't read your mind, so maybe what I'm saying isn't legit. If you feel that way, that's Okay. Can't say I'd blame you. However, it seems to me your question needs a little unpacking. What your'e really asking is whether such feelings can lead to a successful face-to-face domestic relationship. Again, my answer is: sure! :D However, this can also fail. Just like any other connection between people. The special concerns here are the same as in other connections, only with certain exaggerations. Online relationships, etc, have this problem. It's easier to hide certain facts at a distance than it is close-up. For example, the other person may not look the way you expect. The person may not act the same way in real-time situations as in those where there's time to think things over or where there are less distractions. Also, you don't get to see how the person acts in a variety of situations and around different people. But the fact is, these are problems even in face-to-face connections. Just not as much. So, let this person you like know you're curious about such things. Ask about such things. Share your own experiences along this line. That way, you get to send rays of acceptance into that area of the other person's life (& vice versa). So your first meeting won't be a dunk in cold water. It can work, Lyn. Just help it to. Also, don't put too much weight on this one possible relationship. Relationships seldom work when there's too much expectation. Just think that this could be a cool connection and let it develop without too many demands. I wish you luck! ;O) Sunshine & Blessings, Giovani

i think you are just in a stage where you thought you love this person. i was once in such a situation where i think i love someone because i am always talking to that person... spending sleepless nights, long day talks over the internet... but it all went away.. not even a week after i decided to live a normal day and stop living an internet life that i realize i do not love this person.. i am just happy that i have him to talk to me whnever i want... which is kind of selfish of me... maybe you are tooo in that situation...

I say go for it! I think you totally can fall in love with someone you have never met. If you think about it, yes some people can lie but other people are able to be more open over the internet then in person. I definitely and bolder and more myself when I talk to people online then I can be in person. I think it's an awesome story how you two started doing it to make someone jealous then now have feelings for each other. I think you should give it a shot. If you didn't you'd always be wondering what if.

Ah, online romance. Sometimes it is easier to talk to strangers online, then to really talk to a new acquaintance in a real life. So, that is why we now have many cases of online romances. Some are true, often more are just lies. Some works and some don't even if it is true. I guess, you have to brave it and find out. The earlier the better, so you can open up chances for another guys.

its an extreamly delicate situation, if these are just lies and he dosent really think of you in the same way you believe to think of him then it could be dangerous but then again if you really feel that he does mean it then the best way to go about it is by going by your own gut feeling. good luck, i doubt ive helped atall but i had an opinion as has everybody else :) x have a great christmas all of you and i hope you get what you deserve x

It's possible, love has no boundaries. I haven't experienced such situation but I guess it's just the same with other relationships.

hello lynlypiochy! it's possible to fall in love with someone you haven't actually met yet since you communicate daily, as you have said. all those long conversations actually made you feel closer to each other. It's no wonder you found yourself falling for each other. I just hope that when you finally meet each other, you would still connect just like when you were still communicating online.

congratulations! in the other hand keep your eyes opened cause it might be expectations cause you really don't know him. but hey, love appears in many ways, he could be the ONE!