Current era is difficult to find the true love .......?

No dear, Love is love and pure for every - it has no difference in time or era. People who use 'Love' spoils it. They all take them in so light and using 'love' for their own purposes. Even in your case also, you tried to find fault with him and you never even tried to check what is the role in the break apart. Are you so pure in love with him? If so, I don't there were a chance of a brake apart. If you were so sweet and lovable for him, you never lose him. We are human beings having a lots of worldly problems. First what we can do is that identify the person with whom we are in relationship with. May be good or bad, having a single person for ever is the best suit in a person's life, may be it is man or women. So whatever we get, try to make to gold or jewels. Try to identify the goodness and purity within the person, who ever we met with. Looking for many is a easy job but keep the one more beautiful is a tedious job. What we have may be still better, than looking for a suitable substitute. You must have failed to identify the first one's true love that may be the reason you are find fault with the era. However, I think love is pure and genuine, regardless of time. It is we make love good or bad and not any body else. Thank-s

I truly agree with you that in this current era,getting true love is very difficult. May be the selection we made may be wrong or we just go with the asthetic look instead of understanding that person.

gengeni, Why must you define love in a worldly sense? Would having that answer solve any conundrum in the first place? Instead, why not ask what's your own definition of love, what it means to you and how does having that perception benefit your love relationship? Why do you want to generalise Love when it's boundaries are infinite? Why do you want to cage the spirit of love with a one-size-fits-all definition when the dimension of love is probably as broad as the span of this universe? Don't ask what's love - go experience it and figure it out in your own words... in your own voice... in your own emotions and in your own soul. In addition, in Love - so what if the relationship fails? What's with this obsession with a failing relationship anyway? Have we become so rationalized with obtaining 'perfect scores' and 'good results' that we cannot have the imagination and higher understanding that there are times in love (and life) when we must fall in the beginning to win later? Failure is the mother of all success. The irony of Love is that why focus on the fact that a relationship would fail when one should focus on leading the relationship while it last and make the best out of it? Honestly, did you really loose when a relationship fails? Think about it.

I agree with you comig time is not for love and long term relationship. It's turning into live in relationship, let it to be any of the country and I think its fine because after getting married and having relation then not trusting each other and breaking up not only cause problems to you but to your family as well... so better not to distrub them and have a life which is fulll of fun n tension free life for the parents atleast and if we get a life of pleasure fun or depression then its the path that we have choosen so we should not regret to the same... count the past experience for present and try to live for your near future... tomorrow never comes ...

I would like to answer all these things in a different way. First thing is nobody can ever possess the person he or she loves. If any body thinks so, then it is a big mistake. The whole society is making this mistake thats why we do it too. We think that it is normal to possess some body. He or she cannot be allowed to love any body if you love him or her. Society is simply cutting the wings of love and narrowing the vision of love. Love should not be destroyed in any sense. If, we try to do it, then the world will continue to be mess and all people will be suffering again and again. So, the end point is true love is just not finding somebody who can love you only. Love cannot be suppressed in any sense. If, it will be suppressed in a physical way then how people will suppress it at mind level. This thing will look impractical to all the people but it is the ultimate truth.