Mate, love, and curse?

there was never any such thing as a curse, not only the fate of your favor. Do not be sad, be assured there must exist a mate that is created to accompany you forever. Keep praying and trying, you may quickly find the best match for you.

Love life is really bad for few. I dont understand the reasons behind it. Sometimes I think is it we expect a lot from them or they ignore us purposefully. I really dont understand why this happens. Perhaps we are in the same boat.

hmmm sounds not nice to you at the moment? hope your bad luck away from you, another new year is coming soon. a new year new start ;-) I think not only you have such bad experience,maybe not for the best friend,but some friends or other friend's friends. that is life. sometimes we need to accept what life is going,or you can try your best to make what life you want to have. I think I prefer to believe in destiny,if he belongs to you he would never away from you no matter how better your friend is. only now you still not meet the right one for your life I guess.keep trying! good luck ;-)

Some say we travel in the trial period of meeting the wrong ones to finally get the right one... My heart has scars I would not wish on any other person in this world. That right person has not appeared for me, I am starting to feel there isn't one. You are very young yet, your over half my age and have a full life ahead of you. Don't allow the scars of your heart guide you. Look into the eyes of someone that you may want in your life. The eyes are the doorway to the soul in my opinion. One day you may have that one for you.. don't give up.. never loose faith.. Even though I do not feel there is someone out there for me, I truly don't know for sure.. there could be, just haven't met yet.. my life hasn't ended yet..

I have also experienced the same thin not so long ago, its like you have not even done anything wrong against the person to deserve such punishment. It only happened to me once but it really took a lot of time for healing to take place. I don't want to experience the same thing again and sometimes i think that is better to live alone rather than experience the feeling of being hurt again. I also had the same questions which i think i also could not seem to get the answers. Just try to think of it like you just happened to meet the wrong person at the wrong place at the wrong time.

I dont think you are cursed, I personally think it's how you treat the people who are close to know. Is it really true love? Or do you just fall for their looks? It's all about how close you are to these people. Just think about your future with these people. Can you see yourself starting a family with this person and or would he take the responsability for the comitment? Think about those questions before you become to fall in love with this person. Personally, I think you are a little bit lonely, but it's all about you.

I am sorry for all those "Bad luck" or "Curse" as you call it, but I think you should not lose heart so easily.Although the experiences before were rather frustrating, you still have the right and chances to pursue happiness in relationships. Let's work on this together. First, why do your previous boyfriends go to your friends?Maybe you need to summerize what happened during your interactions.An article I read said that "a relationship will not last if both parties don't get what they want from each other".What are your criteria for your future one?And when you finally meet one, have you considered his needs in this companionship?After asking yourself those questions, I am sure you will have some conclusions. Secondly, have you thought of a possibility that you have not a lasting relationship because of wrong occasions? You just have not found the Mr Right yet. He is somewhere waiting to be found by you and taken care of by you.He will be handsome and uncomparable to others in your eyes. Come on!You sure will find a boyfriend and be always yours.Be happy and optimistic!

lol... I should say you didnt fall for the wrong people but you fall for them in a wrong way. Well to add to your discussion i have also fallen for many girls who ditched me for no reason... lol but the thing is we dont love those who deserves our love and love those who are not capable of getting our love... what I feel is that love should not start to move in very first meet, it should be givn time for few months if not a year... and if they cant live with us and cope with us then they really dont deserve us and dear they will never be happ with others aswell because they will not get the love in the was we have done to them... cheers and don't be sad :)

God always makes us meet wrong people before meeting the right one as that way we know the value of the right person. So just hang on, you will be lucky sometime, just have patience. God must be planning something really good for you, so it is taking sometime. Dont get disheartened. Wait for the right time and things will fall into place.